Chapter 41 Two generations growing up with different educational methods

In the live broadcast room, young viewers continued to talk about their experiences.

Xu Xin couldn't stop crying as she watched.

For the first time, he discovered that there were so many people in this world who had the same experience as him.

Everyone is under the oppression of their parents and dares not resist at all.

I saw a girl saying.

Because she was instilled with the idea that her family was poor since she was a child, she still checks the price first when she wants to buy something.

When she came across a store with particularly nice decoration, she didn't even dare to walk in, for fear that she wouldn't be able to afford the products and would be looked down upon.

You may even subconsciously feel that you are not worthy of such good things.

This kind of thinking is like a shackle that binds her and she has been unable to break free for so many years!

Not only that, because he has been able to read people's expressions since he was a child, he has developed a sensitive and suspicious character.

Sometimes, when my roommate closes the door a little loudly, I would wonder if I had done something to upset him or her.

Xu Xin sighed, thinking about what happened when he first went to college and lived in the dormitory.

Suddenly a sentence popped into my mind: Some people use their childhood to heal their lives, while others use their entire lives to heal their childhood.

And he is obviously the latter!
Just then, there was a sound from the door lock. Xu Xin subconsciously turned off his cell phone and pretended to be concentrating on studying.

……

By the lake, the three were still chasing.

At this time, they all held sky rockets in their hands, and their identities had changed.

From the captain and helmsman at the beginning, he has become a pirate now.

"Whoever lets go first is a low-level pirate!"

As Lin Yuan spoke, he lit the fuse of the rocket in his hand.

Yaya didn’t dare to take it at first, but she saw that Weiwei was having fun and wasn’t hurt at all.

Only then could he not resist his curiosity and join the pirate army!
After that, the three of them stood up.

The firecracker in his hand was pointed at the frozen lake.

The next second, the fuse burned out, and with a loud bang, the firecracker flew out.

——[This is too dangerous. I know this rocket. Last year, a child in my family played with it and his hand was blown off. His parents almost cried their eyes out.]

——[It’s ok for the little girl to play with fireworks, but why did she play with something so dangerous? Lin Yuan was only busy playing by himself and didn’t take care of the two children at all? ]

——【This sky rocket can blow your hands apart? I don’t believe it at all. It’s like we’ve never played with it before. This kind of fireworks just makes a loud noise, but it’s not really powerful.】

——【Yaya is really happy, and Lin Yuan also taught the two children how to play with the fireworks safely. Compared to Wang Shan who hid aside, he really didn’t care about the two children!】

……

Middle-aged audiences have had their acceptance levels refreshed time and time again by Lin Yuan's actions.

They sighed and denounced Lin Yuan in the live broadcast room.

Unfortunately, Lin Yuan couldn’t see any of these remarks.

He looked at the empty bag, feeling somewhat unsatisfied.

But just now, I have already bought fireworks worth about a hundred dollars, so it’s okay to play with them occasionally.

Clapping his hands, Lin Yuan continued walking forward with the two children.

All three of them were sweating a little, and their faces were a little dusty because they were playing with fireworks and firecrackers.

Even my clothes got some stains.

Lin Yuan and Weiwei didn't care about it. If the clothes were dirty, they would just wash them.

Compared to the two of them, Yaya was obviously having a hard time.

She didn't dare to be too presumptuous, at least she didn't dare to dirty her clothes.

Wang Shan didn't come over until the fireworks were over.

Seeing the obviously dirty clothes on Lin Yuan and Wei Wei, he subconsciously frowned. Then he glanced at Yaya, whose clothes were clean, and a hint of satisfaction flashed in his eyes.

"Teacher Lin, how come your clothes are dirtier than Weiwei's?"

Lin Yuan raised his eyelids lazily and looked at Wang Shan and said indifferently.

"It's normal to get dirty clothes when you go out to play. Just wash them when you get home."

"It's not good for children's health if they don't like to be clean."

"And we must not let her develop a character that doesn't value the fruits of others' labor just because someone else washes her clothes."

Wang Shan didn't quite understand, as he had clearly asked the child to pay more attention.

You can do less of many things yourself, or even not do them at all.

Lin Yuan is also a single father, there is no reason for him not to know these things!
"You already said it's a child, so what's the need for baggage?"

"You can't be washing your own child's clothes and making him angry, right?"

Hearing this, Wang Shan looked a little guilty.

In the early years, when Yaya was still young, he had just started his career.

I am busy delivering express packages every day, and there is still a lot of housework to do when I get home.

Sometimes when he washed Yaya's clothes and they were full of stains, he would really be frustrated.

For this reason, he even beat and scolded the young Yaya, just to make her remember the pain and become cleaner.

Over time, Yaya really paid special attention to her own hygiene.

Seeing that Wang Shan didn't reply, Lin Yuan immediately understood.

In the early years, he did have similar emotions, but when he saw Weiwei's cute little face.

All the emotions disappeared, replaced by contentment.

He looked at Wang Shan, and for the first time he looked serious.

“Dirty clothes can be washed and broken things can be repaired, but the joy of childhood only comes once.”

"For Weiwei, I always hope that I am a father who does not spoil the fun."

Lin Yuan had experienced the so-called educational ideas of the older generation.

It is because he knows that children who grow up in such an environment will feel somewhat insecure.

So after having Weiwei, he was determined to become the father he wanted to be.

A father who doesn’t kill the fun?

Wang Shan looked a little dazed. Before this, he had never heard of such an adjective.

The young audience shouted again.

——【Every word that Brother Lin said is worth learning word for word for parents today. If our parents had this idea at the time, I can’t imagine how lively and cheerful I would have been!】

——【The phrase "father who doesn't spoil the fun" really brought tears to my eyes. Thinking about myself, I never get positive emotional feedback from my parents. I feel so tired of communicating with them that I don't even want to talk now.】

——【I don’t know what Wang Shan thinks when he hears this. To be honest, he really needs to change his way of education. Yaya is a little too well-behaved and sensible.】

——【People of every age have their own pressures. Children should not be obsessed with playing. If they have too happy a childhood, they will have difficulty adapting to the social environment when they grow up.】

——【Parents who love their children will plan for them in the long run. Is Lin Yuan really not worried about Weiwei's future at all?】

……

Netizens born in the 80s still cannot approve of Lin Yuan’s educational methods.

They still can't understand why so many young people complain about their misfortunes in childhood.

Moreover, in their view, those so-called misfortunes are nothing more than the emotions that come from having nothing to do.

Their parents raised them, provided them with good food and drink, and paid for their studies.

They were not allowed to be blown by the wind or wet by the rain, yet they were still not satisfied.

I blame my parents and feel that I was hurt at that time.

(End of this chapter)