Chapter 40 Children’s growth requires the patient company of their parents
Yaya widened her eyes in curiosity, totally not understanding what Lin Yuan and Weiwei were talking about.

But in her heart she was truly envious, envious that Weiwei had a father who could play with her, unlike herself!
Thinking of this, Yaya felt a little depressed and looked back at Wang Shan who was standing under the tree.

At this time, Wang Shan just received a call from the company.

In order to record the program today, he had done a lot of work in the company in advance.

Some of his subordinates didn't know where some documents were, so they called him.

Seeing that Yaya was having fun, Wang Shan turned around and answered the phone.

I also missed the envy in her eyes.

Yaya waited for a long time, but seeing that Wang Shan was still on the phone, she had to turn around and go play with Weiwei.

When Wang Shan finished the things in his hands, he looked over and saw Yaya clapping happily.

He was a little stunned. He didn't expect Yaya to smile so happily when seeing the fireworks.

He couldn't help but feel dazed. How long had it been since he saw Yaya's bright smile?
When netizens saw the expression on Wang Shan’s face, they were also filled with sighs.

——【Oh, Wang Shan is actually a good father, but he tends to ignore Yaya's emotions. It would be better if he could spend more time with Yaya.】

——【What is Wang Shan thinking at this moment? In fact, he can play with Yaya right now. I don’t understand what he is holding back.】

——【Children’s growth is not just about playing around. Wang Shan is under so much pressure. If he only thinks about playing every day, what will Yaya do?】

——【There is no parent in this world who doesn’t want the best for their children. Wang Shan works hard every day just to give Yaya a good life.】

——[It’s as if Wang Shan doesn’t need to live without Yaya. It’s harder than climbing to the sky to get you to admit that you owe the child something! ]

……

Netizens clearly saw the emotions on Yaya and Wang Shan’s faces.

Middle-aged audiences are still stubborn and think that everything Wang Shan does is to give Yaya a good life.

They felt that Wang Shan could take good care of Yaya every day while also being busy with work.

I've done better than most dads.

As for Yaya’s emotions, every child has them, but they are magnified by young people.

After all, in their world, the life a child lives is determined by the abilities of their parents.

There is no situation where parents revolve around their children.

If this happens, the child will only develop a rude and unreasonable character.

When young viewers saw these remarks, they exclaimed that they were backward.

He said that as they are both fathers, why does Lin Yuan have time to play with Weiwei?

Even when Wang Shan is recording a show, he cannot spare any time for Yaya.

It can be seen that in daily life, the time that father and daughter spend alone together is very little.

……

Seeing these comments and silently giving thumbs up, Xu Xin couldn't help but think of his childhood.

Since he was a child, his parents would tell him about the situation at home in order to encourage him to study hard.

He remembered that the sentence his parents said most often was.

"Our family is poor and cannot compare to other families. Your only way out is to study hard!"

"You are the hope of your parents. If you don't study hard, you will have to work part-time for the rest of your life. Working part-time is so tiring and you won't make much money."

As Xu Xin thought about his childhood experiences, the fire in his heart grew more and more intense.

In the end, he still sent a barrage.

"In the eyes of parents, is everything they do for their children, and is it that children's mission in life is to learn?"

This sentence immediately sparked discussions among many netizens.

Many people born in the 80s spoke directly from their own experiences.

——【If the child doesn't study, then what should he do? Nowadays, no one is herding cattle and pigs. You can't just not learn anything. It will be difficult for him to support himself in the future, right?】——【In fact, only after becoming a parent will you understand that children are often the driving force for hard work. So sometimes when parents say, "I do all this for you," this is the truth!】

——【Times are different now. In the past, everyone was uneducated and could barely survive by doing hard labor. But now if children don’t study hard, they will starve to death when they enter society!】

……

The public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother says that the woman is reasonable.

At first glance, what the middle-aged audience said does make sense.

However, only children who grew up under oppressive education know how suffocating it is to bear such pressure.

——【I was most afraid of exams since I was a kid. Every time I came home after an exam, I would be scolded. My parents would often say, "I worked so hard to support you in your studies, and you only got two points!" I was tired of hearing that.】

——[My parents always tell me that our family cannot compare to other families, and they also like to ask me what I can do in the future if I don’t study hard. I get really annoyed every time I’m asked this question.]

——【Seeing Yaya is like seeing myself when I was little. I was taught the idea that "my family is poor and I can't compare to others" since I was little. Now I have grown up and have extremely low self-esteem. I don't dare to buy anything I want.】

Xu Xin looked at the comments and burst into tears again.

The memories of my childhood appear before my eyes frame by frame like a movie.

Most of what these netizens said were things he had heard when he was a child.

He remembered that his grades were not good at the beginning.

In order to help him do better in the exam, his parents would always say this.

'Next time you get a certain score on the test, I will buy you the toy you want.'

Every time, he was very much looking forward to it and worked hard to take the exam.

However, when he achieved the agreed score, his parents only cared about his grade.

They would ask him in an obnoxious way whether he had deliberately not studied well before to get such high scores.

He never even praised his progress, he just asked how he lost the other points.

He didn't even mention the toys he promised to buy him.

——【When I was little, I hated going shopping with my parents. They said they would buy things for me, but in the end, they bought nothing I liked. They just wanted me to buy it.】

——【Me too, when I was a kid and went to buy clothes, my mom would always find fault with the clothes I chose, saying that the colors were not good or the styles were not suitable. The most disgusting thing was what she said at the end, 'It's not that I don't buy it for you, it's that you don't want it'! 】

——【It’s true. My mom is the same. Every time I go shopping, she always comes back unhappy and says I’m hard to please. It’s obviously her who is always picky.】

As the conversation went on, netizens started talking about other things.

Xu Xin's memory started turning again.

He was a little surprised, why everyone's childhood was so similar!
When he was young, he went clothes shopping with his parents, and his mother would let him choose by himself every time.

But when he picks the one he likes, his mother will say.

"This color doesn't suit you. The gray one looks good and won't get dirty!"

"This style is not good. You are a student, you can't wear such foreign clothes. The teacher will hate you!"

"What do you know? How can I, a person who has experienced this, not know?"

I hear these words every time I go shopping.

He can't feel emotional when he can't buy the things he likes.

Once she is dissatisfied, my mother will go from impatience to rage, and sometimes even hit me in the street.

Not only that, but after returning home, he would tell everyone he met about it.

They said he had a bad temper and was always stern in front of his parents, and that he was particularly disobedient.

All he does all day is compare what he wears and uses with others, and he doesn't understand his parents' good intentions at all.

It is not necessary to compare your grades with those of children with better grades.

(End of this chapter)