Chapter 17: Using the child's efforts to satisfy one's own vanity

"And from the two children's answers about the future, Weiwei's answer is very spiritual. It's rare for a child of this age to have such a sensitive heart and such strong empathy!"

"It can be seen that Lin Yuan's education is successful at this moment. Sometimes, the educational ideas of the post-90s generation cannot be directly denied. There are still some merits."

Liu Liping gave a brief summary, but everyone understood the meaning of her words.

There are many parenting videos posted by people born in the 90s on the Internet, and she has watched quite a few of them before going on the show.

The method of combining education with entertainment has existed since ancient times, but young people are gradually inclined to base their teaching on the preferences of children.

So at the beginning, she was actually not optimistic about Lin Yuan, but after watching the video, Weiwei's performance was remarkable, which shows that the parenting method of the post-90s generation is not completely bad.

——[I think what the experts said is very correct. The education methods of the two families are different, and the children's growth environments are also different. There is nothing to compare. ]

——【It’s not the education method that’s wrong. I think it’s that children nowadays are too fragile. They can’t stand even the slightest blow. They will die if their parents say a few words. They are not at all like the rough-raised children we had before.】

——[I think what the above person said makes sense. It is better to discipline children from an early age, otherwise they will be educated by others when they enter the society! ]

——【Children nowadays are so pretentious, always complaining about this and that. How many families can afford the material conditions that Wang Shan provides to Yaya?】

——[In fact, whether it is Wang Shan or Lin Yuan, their starting point is for the good of the children, but their methods are different, and Wang Shan is more in line with the general family education. ]

……

Seeing the live broadcast room gaining popularity again, the director's discomfort was swept away.

He took the intercom and signaled the staff on both sides to start the next process.

The camera switches to Wang Shan's house.

At this time, the father and daughter had finished watching the video and were sitting on the sofa to answer questions from the staff.

"In our eyes, Yaya is a very obedient and sensible child."

“Could you please share with us your parenting philosophy?”

The staff member asked, holding the script.

Wang Shan leaned back and glanced at Yaya who was sitting upright.

He devoted all his efforts to this daughter, and fortunately, he was satisfied with the result.

"For children's education, I think it requires a combination of work and rest."

“When studying, you need a strict learning environment and attitude”

"Because I think that since you have spent time on it, you don't have to be the best at it, but you must have some achievements and gains, otherwise you don't have to do it."

"After studying, I won't stop you from playing or resting, and Yaya does a good job in this regard."

"She always does her own things. I don't need to worry about her studies. She has her own arrangements."

The staff seemed to have been prepared. When they heard Wang Shan's answer, they nodded as if to predict it.

Many parents emphasize the combination of work and rest when educating their children. Wang Shan’s educational method is no exception, and Yaya is indeed very well educated.

Wang Shan seemed very satisfied with his reaction. He smiled helplessly and continued speaking.

"It's winter vacation now, and Yaya hasn't slacked off at home. She has already finished all her winter vacation homework in the past three days."

"Just before the show started, she asked me to buy her a lot of test papers and extracurricular reading materials. I fully support her ambition in this area of ​​study."

After hearing this, the staff looked at Yaya in surprise. They didn't expect that such a young child could be so self-disciplined.

If he had such a well-behaved daughter, he would definitely be more proud than Wang Shan.

After hearing what Wang Shan said, netizens became upset.

——【Fuck, I thought it was devil level, but it turned out to be hell level. Are you okay, Wang Shan? You finished all your winter vacation homework in three days!】

——【Yaya is indeed a good child. She knows how to put study first. Wang Shan’s education is worth learning. Children should be like this, without so many messy thoughts. Just study hard! 】

——【Crazy, I think Wang Shan is really crazy, this is not just a simple repressive education, no wonder Yaya is doing homework every day, it seems that this homework can never be finished! 】

——【Oh, children nowadays do have a lot more pressure when growing up. Let’s not talk about other things, just take studying as an example. When we were young, everyone failed, but it was no big deal. Now, there are always cram schools, and everyone is competing with each other.】

——【Why can't these parents compare their own salaries, but instead compare their children's grades? Do they have children just to satisfy their own vanity? 】

……

The staff took the opportunity to turn the camera to Yaya.

"Do you sometimes feel that your father assigns you too many tasks?" Yaya glanced at Wang Shan, then turned to look at the camera.

how?

Of course more!

She writes until late at night every day and still can't finish her homework.

I often collapse because of homework.

But Dad always says, I'm doing this for your own good.

If you can't endure the hardship of studying now, you will endure the hardship of society in the future.

She looked towards the camera with a forced smile.

"I think it's OK, within the range I can accept."

"When I was young, I didn't understand why my father asked me to do so much homework every day."

“Later, when classmates came to ask me questions, I realized that if I knew more, I wouldn’t need to ask others to teach me.”

Yaya's words left the staff feeling uncomfortable.

It turns out that this is a matter of mutual consent, so what is he expecting here?

In other words, even if Yaya felt aggrieved.

I'm afraid it would be difficult to say it in front of Wang Shan.

"Only if I work extra hard will my father not have to work so hard."

"And I want Dad to like me."

After saying this, a hint of sadness flashed across Yaya's eyes.

In her opinion, her father doesn't like her very much.

Otherwise, she wouldn't be forced to do so many things she doesn't want to do every day.

At home, she didn't dare to resist what her father said.

When I see a toy I like, my dad will say it will interfere with my studies.

She seemed to always be moving forward in accordance with her father's ideas.

Yaya’s understanding made everyone’s breath catch in their throat.

——【Oh my god, I can’t even imagine how happy I would be if my daughter was this sensible! 】

——【So, is Yaya so well behaved because Wang Shan told her that he only likes well-behaved children?】

——[I think this is the atmosphere that a model family should have. Yaya’s current achievements are inseparable from Wang Shan’s education.]

——【To be honest, although Wang Shan has done well to this extent, the child is so young that he has no idea what he likes. Parents need to be strict with him so that he won’t go astray.】

——[Is this what the older generation means by being under great pressure? Because they are under great pressure, they drag their children to suffer with them? What kind of parents would do this?]

……

Netizens from the two generations started arguing again.

People born in the 80s have always felt that there is nothing wrong with Wang Shan’s education, and they also feel that Yaya’s excellence is inseparable from Wang Shan’s encouragement.

However, those born in the 90s believe that children also have their own thoughts, and that they should pay more attention to their children’s preferences rather than just focusing on studying.

Not to mention putting a lot of pressure on her in the name of doing good for her!
The director felt a little heavy-hearted as he looked at the indignant netizens in the live broadcast room.

He didn't expect that Yaya would be so sensible. Not only did she not play around on weekdays, but she also did not slack off even during the winter vacation.

He sighed and signaled that the camera should be switched to Lin Yuan in post-production.

Lin Yuan held Weiwei in his arms and leaned comfortably on the sofa.

The coffee table was filled with snacks, including potato chips, cakes, and milk tea.

The video had just finished airing on TV.

(End of this chapter)