Chapter 16: Isn’t the educational thought of the older generation harmful?
Unlike in the past, as soon as the host asked the question, the two experts gave an answer.

The scene in the video just now shocked them.

At the beginning, everyone thought that the education given to those born in the 80s would be more beneficial to the growth of children than that given to those born in the 90s.

However, the performance of the children from the two groups of families somewhat subverted their cognition.

According to past experience, having certain requirements for children will make it easier for them to succeed as they grow up.

Cheng Bo thought about it, organized his words and spoke.

"We can get two messages from the video. One is that Wang Shan is a very traditional father. He works hard to give his daughter a good life."

"Ya Ya is also a very sensible child. She can do her own things and take care of herself, which is difficult for many children nowadays to do."

"But no, it's often like this, we as parents will ignore our children, because the children can take care of themselves, we will subconsciously feel that we can rest assured about the children."

"Wang Shan is like this. He is single-minded when working. Even after he brought his daughter to the office, he still devoted himself to work, thus reducing communication with Yaya."

Speaking of this, Cheng Bo sighed inwardly.

In fact, after watching the video just now, he felt that there was something wrong with Wang Shan’s education.

He is also a father and will be strict with his children.

But having demands is not an excuse to ignore children's growth.

"Looking at Yaya's reaction at school, she is actually a bit of a loner."

"He would not actively answer the teacher's questions during class, and after class, he would just sit in his seat and do his homework."

"In the eyes of most parents, such children are particularly well-behaved, sensible and have good grades."

"But this type of child often does not leave an impression in front of the teacher because she has no characteristics, which is also caused by Yaya's living environment for many years."

——【Yes, yes, yes, this expert finally said something sensible. Anyone with a discerning eye can see that there is something wrong with Yaya’s growing environment. Although the material conditions are not bad, the atmosphere is not good.】

——[I always feel that children should grow up in a loving environment. Yaya has to bear too much on her own. How lonely she must be when she is alone at home.]

——【I don’t mean to say that Wang Shan is bad. Yes, it is undeniable that he works so hard to give Yaya a good life, but then again, without Yaya, does he not need to live?】

——【Children are often just an excuse for adults to cover up their own selfishness. They say that a good material life is for the children, but in fact it is just to satisfy their own vanity! 】

——【That’s right, the children nowadays are under so much pressure in life, with all the tutoring classes, I don’t believe that the children would starve to death without them. To put it bluntly, it’s all caused by parents competing with each other!】

……

In the live broadcast room, young people were indignant and criticized the educational ideas of the older generation.

In their words, everyone is a victim.

Very few people have a happy childhood!
The director looked at the comments that suddenly changed in style. Some of them were heartfelt, but others remained silent.

Everyone feels sorry for Yaya, but how many people are not Yaya?

"I also have a daughter who is the same age as Yaya, so I can understand Wang Shan's feelings better."

"Because the post-80s generation nowadays is under a lot of pressure, with elderly parents and young children to take care of, it is not easy for Wang Shan to achieve what she has done." "I am not saying this to express anything. We all see Yaya's situation. In comparison, her situation is indeed not as good as Weiwei's."

"Yaya lacks the energy and vigor that her peers should have. We can see that when we asked her about her future dreams, she glanced at Wang Shan before answering that she wanted to enter Tsinghua University."

"So I saw a little information from Yaya. She knew very well how to please Wang Shan. Although the word please is a bit bad, this is the situation."

"She knows how to answer Wang Shan to make him happy, and that's the answer Wang Shan wants, so she did this series of little actions."

——【Fuck, this sister finally hit the nail on the head. I was wondering why I felt something was weird when I watched it just now. This flattery really hits the nail on the head!】

——【See, this is the good kid in everyone's eyes. This is the way of education that ignores the child's independent will and imposes one's own ideas on the child. It is really disgusting! 】

——【Yaya is so sensible that it makes people feel distressed. Children of this age can't sit still on a bench at all, but she can sit there from morning to night. She obviously wants her father to accompany her, but when she sees Wang Shan is busy, she is sensible and doesn't say anything. I am crying! 】

——【When will these parents reflect on themselves? Such a young child is forced to be so sensible. Apart from textbooks and test papers, he has no time to play at all. It's really sad! 】

……

The emotions of netizens born after 90 continued to be high, and they were just about to go online to discuss it with the experts on the spot.

After listening to Liu Liping's words, Xiaobing nodded thoughtfully.

She just discovered this situation.

After all, there are only four people in the camera, so it would be difficult not to notice.

She suddenly thought that when she was young, her parents' education method was similar to Wang Shan's.

In the name of doing good for her, they would ask her to do this and not to do that.

When I first wanted to be a host, I had a big argument with my family and it took a long time before my parents agreed.

Because in their eyes, there are no decent jobs except teachers and doctors.

She couldn't blame her parents for this, after all, it was caused by their limited knowledge.

"Weiwei's growth environment is much better than Yaya's. This is reflected in the atmosphere. The way she and Lin Yuan get along is particularly interesting."

"The two of them are like good friends. Weiwei is always open and generous when interacting with others. This is obviously due to Lin Yuan's company and encouragement."

"We can see that Lin Yuan is a father who can also provide emotional value to his daughter, which is hard to find in many contemporary parents."

"What's even more interesting is that despite growing up in two very different families, Weiwei and Yaya are both very sensible children."

"Weiwei will share things with Lin Yuan, and Yaya also understands Wang Shan's difficulties. Both daughters will consciously complete their homework, which is something many children cannot do."

Cheng Bo commented on Lin Yuan again. He now has a new feeling about the way post-90s generation raise children.

I used to think that if parents just took their children out to play, they would lack authority in front of their children.

When encountering problems in the future, children will largely disobey their parents.

But Lin Yuan told him through his own actions that as long as one strikes the right balance, a relaxed educational method can also produce outstanding children.

(End of this chapter)