Chapter 92 Wang Shan’s encouragement? ?
"I told you that Lin Yuan is unreliable. You can tell from the way he educates his children. He still treats his wife in the same way. No wonder they want to divorce!"
"You can't say that. Lin Yuan's children are well educated, which shows that there is nothing wrong with his education method. On the other hand, Yaya is too introverted and a little petty. I don't like her anyway."
"Wang Shan's education methods are outdated. A truly obedient child doesn't need that much parenting. I think there's nothing wrong with cultivating children's hardworking abilities from an early age."
Several people were discussing something heatedly. As soon as Xu Ma walked over, she heard what they were saying and nodded as she listened.
In fact, no matter what method of education is used, the most important thing is how parents treat their children.
As long as the right balance is found, children will generally not be too bad. It's just that some parents are not satisfied and want their children to be better.
This is where educational problems arise.
Just like Yaya, Wang Shan wants Yaya to be the best in everything, which not only creates pressure for Yaya, but also for himself.
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Lin Yuan was lying at home watching short videos when he accidentally came across the director's account.
I don’t know if it was to promote the show or what, but he actually made a video to educate his children.
The general content of the video is that the child wanted to help wash the dishes, but accidentally broke the dishes.
The child was so frightened that he stood aside, at a loss as to what to do. At this time, the child's mother immediately stepped forward and hugged the child, while the father was cleaning up the glass shards.
Because the popularity of the program has not yet passed, this video alone has sparked discussion among many netizens.
——[This is the right thing for the parents to do. It is inevitable for a child this young to make mistakes. Besides, the bowl has already been broken. Even beating and scolding the child cannot change the result. Instead, it will undermine the child's self-confidence.]
——【Now the whole network is praising Lin Yuan’s educational method. I really saw many bloggers echoing it. It was only after watching the director’s work that I realized that when you are young, you will not be beaten for breaking a bowl. I really cried.】
——[My family members, I can’t believe it. When I came back from school a few days ago, my parents actually took the initiative to ask me if I was tired from studying. They also said they would take me out to relax on the weekend. After asking them further, I found out that they had watched this show and were influenced by Lin Yuan.]
——【To be honest, Lin Yuan’s education method is actually suitable for today’s young people. As I said before, I am not the best parent in the world, so why should I ask my children to do everything to the best of their ability?】
——[Since I have chosen to have a child, I still need to be more patient with the child. I want to be an emotionally stable parent like Lin Yuan in the future, so that my child can be as well-behaved as Weiwei.]
……
The director's comment section was changing direction, becoming more harmonious than ever before.
Even many professional scholars came out to support Lin Yuan.
In a short time, Lin Yuan became famous, even among many people who had not watched the show.
We have all seen videos edited by netizens to a greater or lesser extent.
During this period, the program finally reached its final episode.
This day is the first day of school.
As usual, Wang Shan got up early in the morning to make breakfast for Yaya, and then dressed his daughter and sent her to school.
Because the filming is done after school starts, half of this episode will be completed in school.
"You must listen carefully in class. If you don't understand something, you must ask the teacher in time. Did you hear me?"
The car stopped in front of the elementary school. When Yaya pushed the door and got out of the car, Wang Shan gave her a habitual reminder.
"I understand, Dad. I'll go in first."
After saying that, Yaya checked her clothes and walked towards the school gate.
When she arrived at the classroom, many classmates were already there, and when they saw her, they all came over to her.
"Yaya, my mom said you are a little star now. What does it feel like to be a star?"
"Yaya, can we still play together in the future? I got a puppy during the winter vacation. You can come to my house to play when you are free."
Third graders are full of curiosity. Although Yaya had always been a little invisible in the class before, the children still chatted enthusiastically.
Looking at the classmates who surrounded her, Yaya was a little dazed.
Subconsciously, I felt a little at a loss, but I immediately thought of what Weiwei said to me when I went to Weiwei's house during the winter vacation.
If these people are willing to get along with each other, then get along with them. If not, you can act a little cold.
There is no need to try hard to please anyone!
Yaya has always kept these words in mind.
"I'm not a celebrity, I'm just recording my life."
"Isn't the puppy cute? Next time I'll buy it some dog food!"
Yaya loosened her fists that were clenched due to nervousness and responded with a decent smile.
She had always envied her classmates for being able to play together, but she never expected that one day she would actually be able to make friends at school.
Yaya's performance was seen by everyone and everyone was very pleased.
——[It’s only been a winter vacation, but Yaya’s transformation is so obvious. When I saw her playing with Weiwei before, I didn’t feel such a big difference. Now compared to her previous performance in school, she is completely two different people!]
——【In fact, Wang Shan was also subtly changing his education method, but it was not so obvious. At least for the boxing class, he listened to Yaya's opinion and did not let her learn it.】
——【Yaya now has the vigor and frankness that a girl of this age should have. She looked very well-behaved and sensible before, but it was also very pitiful. I think she is good now! 】
——[In fact, it’s not that Wang Shan’s education method is bad, it’s just that he didn’t control the intensity well, and it was a bit too strict. In addition, he didn’t spend much time with his children, which is why many people think that traditional education methods are not good.]
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Netizens, whether young or middle-aged, were very happy to see Yaya's transformation.
No matter how fiercely they quarreled before, at this moment, I sincerely feel that Yaya has changed for the better.
The director was a little dumbfounded when looking at the barrage.
Unexpectedly, the two generations of netizens who had been arguing for almost a whole winter vacation actually reached a tacit understanding when the show was about to end.
He asked the staff to switch the camera to the studio.
I would like to hear what the three experts think of Yaya’s changes.
After receiving the message, Xiaobing glanced at the script in her hand.
He asked the three experts sitting next to him with pleasure.
"I remember watching Yaya's performance in school before. She was very introverted and didn't talk much with her classmates after class."
"I didn't expect to be able to make friends so quickly in the new semester. It shows that Yaya has actually changed."
"So what do the three experts think of Yaya's change?"
Cheng Bo glanced at the other two people beside him and saw that they were all looking at him, and obviously had no intention of speaking first.
Then he thought about it, sat up straight and said.
"In fact, in the following episodes, we can all see that under Lin Yuan's influence, Wang Shan's way of educating Yaya has changed in subtle ways."
"Although he still gets up early in the morning to prepare everything for the child, we can find that Wang Shan decided what to eat in the morning from the beginning, and later asked Yaya what she wanted to eat every night and got up in the morning to make it."
"In fact, this is also a change in the relationship. Wang Shan is trying to encourage Yaya to speak out her inner thoughts. I think this change is very good."
After watching these episodes, Cheng Bo still remembers the personality traits of the two fathers.
Now, he can come up with such comments with ease, which have little substance!
(End of this chapter)