Chapter 90 Professor Li: Lin Yuan can’t do this!

Chapter 90 Professor Li: Lin Yuan can’t do this!
Netizens were extremely shocked. They didn’t expect that this was the reason for their divorce!
To put it nicely, this is the first time I have met such a selfless man.

Or maybe Lin Yuan loved his ex-wife so much that he supported all her ideas.

After hearing this, Zhang Rou and Chen Huan didn't know what to say.

Even Chen Huan later no longer had the idea of ​​going on a blind date.

After a brief chat, the two female guests left.

After getting back in the car arranged by the program team, the staff asked them about their wishes as usual.

Since Chen Huan didn't talk much with Lin Yuan, he expressed his own thoughts first.

"I think he still has his ex-wife in his heart. I don't mean to say that he should completely forget about her after the divorce."

"But when Mr. Lin talked about his ex-wife, his eyes were full of tenderness, which made me feel that if his ex-wife came back, they would remarry at any time."

But this feeling is something that no woman can accept.

So it’s better not to get to know each other in the beginning.

Zhang Rou also felt a little regretful, but still agreed with Chen Huan's point of view.

"Mr. Lin is a man of long-lasting love. I envy this campus love from school uniform to wedding dress. Although he is currently single, the friendship between the two will not change."

"Besides, I'm not ready to be a stepmother yet. For my first relationship in life, I still want it to be pure."

The two female guests had said things to this extent, and the staff did not try to comfort them, but only expressed understanding.

After all, everyone has their own ideas, and when it comes to marriage, everyone has their own fate.

However, netizens sighed after watching it, especially the young netizens.

——[Both girls are good, it's a pity that Lin Yuan missed them. I hope these two female guests can find their ideal partners in the future. ]

——[Actually, I can understand that. I pursued Lin Yuan’s ex-wife. Men are always extra attentive and tolerant to the women they like. I can only say that they are not suitable.]

——【I don’t know what young people are thinking nowadays. If you still have someone in your heart, don’t agree to a blind date. Isn’t this just disgusting? Even if you force yourself to be together, you won’t be able to live a good life!】

——[When it comes to marriage, whether you like each other or not is not important. What is important is that you are suitable for each other. Only in this way can you live your life. If you like each other too much, you will have more demands on each other, and life will be difficult. 】

——[Does the program crew need to arrange such a blind date for several days? I think the routines are almost the same. What matters is probably the guests' on-the-spot reactions.]

……

After what happened to Wang Shan and Lin Yuan during their blind date today.

Unexpectedly, neither of them had a good impression of the female guest.

Not to mention that he was attracted to the female guests.

The netizens who were originally very excited suddenly felt bored.

Some netizens even think that if you like watching blind date shows, you might as well just watch "If You Are the One"!
The director was also very troubled by this. He didn't expect that the new arrangement ended in failure on the first day.

He was somewhat worried, so he turned the camera to the experts to distract netizens' attention.

XiaoIce was forced to ask questions.

"After watching the two fathers' blind date process, what do the three experts think about marriage?"

"Nowadays, many netizens say that you should choose the right person for marriage, and whether you like him or not is not important."

"Do the three experts have any different opinions on this?" Xiaobing also wanted to know the answer to this question.

In the past two years, with the popularization of the Internet, there are many divorce videos online.

Gradually, many similar remarks began to emerge.

Cheng Bo thought about it, nodded silently, and then said.

"This is indeed a very controversial topic. In fact, everyone has different views on marriage."

"Some people think that marriage is nothing more than finding someone to live with, and as long as the other half meets all requirements, they will turn a blind eye to it."

"But some people believe that love is supreme. If their significant other is not the one they love, they would rather be single for the rest of their lives."

In just a few words, Cheng Bo simply explained the emotional state of contemporary young people.

As sociologists, such issues are actually within their research scope.

After all, marriage requires getting along, and where there is getting along there will be conflicts.

"For the older generation, they actually married for the purpose of getting along, because blind marriages were common in that era, and most people had never met before marriage, let alone had an emotional foundation."

"It is undeniable that many people lived a good life at that time, but this good life was gained by women who endured humiliation in marriage. They often chose to forgive the harm caused by marriage for the sake of their children."

"However, we can also see that many famous people have basically happy families, and this is because they have more respect for each other in their relationship with their wives."

"Of course, I am not saying that blind marriages can't lead to happy families. I can only say that this situation is very rare, so I think that couples should have more understanding and respect in marriage."

——【In fact, to put it bluntly, the times have changed, and everyone’s pursuit of life has also changed. In the past, people got married to have someone to help share the pressure of life and to have enough food to eat. Now, they get married to have a better life.】

——【Times are progressing and people’s thinking is also progressing, but the experts said one thing very well, in our era, women in marriage rarely did not get beaten, and the in-laws’ harassment and misunderstanding of the husband were secondary. Only the husband himself knows the unspeakable pain! 】

——【No matter what kind of relationship it is, mutual respect is really necessary. At least in my opinion, Lin Yuan can unconditionally support his ex-wife in pursuing her ideals, which shows that he is a very responsible man. A good man will not tie a woman down.】

——[Most families nowadays have only one or two children, and each of them is pampered by their parents. They cannot stand any grievance at all, and many of their thoughts are self-centered. There is nothing much to say.]

——【How can there be no friction in marriage? Teeth often bite tongues. It’s just that some people can choose to forgive, while others can’t. This is like Zhou Yu fighting Huang Gai, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to be beaten!】

……

Both young netizens and middle-aged audiences are more accepting of Cheng Bo's words.

What he said was particularly pertinent, analyzing from multiple angles and sticking to the facts.

It has to be said that, apart from Cheng Bo's prejudice against Lin Yuan, he is still a very capable expert.

The review was so well-organized that even Professor Li couldn't help nodding his head.

Since ancient times, how to measure the relationship between husband and wife has been an elusive point for scholars from all walks of life.

Liu Liping studies education. Although she also studies people, her research is not as in-depth as that of Cheng Bo and Professor Li.

After briefly explaining my own views, I turned the topic over to Professor Li.

At this moment, Professor Li no longer had the calm demeanor he had at the beginning. His brows were slightly furrowed, as if he was struggling with something.

After a long while, I heard him speak in a heavy tone.

"If it's out of selfish motives, I personally don't support Lin Yuan's approach!"

(End of this chapter)