Chapter 82 Wang Shan requires the woman to stay at home to take care of her husband and children aft

Chapter 82 Wang Shan requires the woman to stay at home to take care of her husband and children after marriage!
The basic process of a blind date is similar. The two people briefly talked about their basic situation, and then the coffee Chen Huan ordered came up.

When Chen Huan learned that Wang Shan was divorced and had a child, he was stunned for a moment and then asked.

"Excuse me, what was the reason for your divorce from your ex-wife?"

It was the same question again. Wang Shan thought silently in his heart and then sighed.

With the experience just now, he spoke more tactfully this time, but overall there were no major changes.

When Chen Huan heard that the two divorced because Wang Shan’s ex-wife cheated on him, he nodded.

Wang Shan was a little confused, "Don't you think there's anything wrong with me?"

After all, just now, Zhang Rou hurriedly ended the blind date without saying a word after hearing his reasons for divorce.

Is Chen Huan’s current behavior a bit too calm?

"I asked you about the reason for your divorce. I have no other purpose. I just want to know the root cause. Please don't mind."

"After all, everyone is here for a blind date, so we still have to be honest with each other. This isn't a free love relationship, so we don't have to get to know each other slowly."

"Of course, I'm not saying that blind dates don't require getting to know each other slowly. What I mean is that these superficial things that can directly judge whether a relationship should continue should be put on the table earlier."

This way we don't waste each other's time.

Chen Huan did not say the rest of the words, but those who understood would understand the meaning of the words.

"This is as it should be. We are all adults and our time is precious. Basic honesty is still necessary."

Wang Shan continued speaking along with what Chen Huan said.

He himself didn't know why, but he just followed Chen Huan's rhythm unconsciously.

——[It’s confirmed. Chen Huan is indeed suitable for Wang Shan. In front of her, Wang Shan no longer has the self-centered feeling he had at the beginning, and he no longer feels good about himself.]

——[Is it possible that Chen Huan did not leave immediately after hearing that Wang Shan was getting married for the second time, which gave Wang Shan some confidence, so he was willing to obey temporarily? ]

——[There are not many girls these days who don’t look down on remarried men. University teachers are different. Educated girls have a broader vision and won’t bother with trivial details.]

——[There is no need to praise one and criticize the other. Everyone has different requirements for themselves. Some people can accept a second marriage, while others cannot. There is nothing to say.]

——[I hope the two of them can really get to know each other well. Wang Shan is indeed a good guy. It is only true for a woman to find a husband who loves her in this life. Everything else is just a passing cloud!]

……

The middle-aged audience at this moment has obviously forgotten how much they liked Zhang Rou at the beginning.

Now, just because he saw that Chen Huan didn't mind Wang Shan's second marriage, he actually started to praise Chen Huan.

What's worse, some people even directly compared the two girls, just like picking cabbages in the vegetable market.

The young netizens who watched this were immediately furious and shouted to the director to ban that person's microphone.

If you see people like this talking, your life will be shortened by three years!

What era is this now? There are still people using old-fashioned ideas to label current love and marriage.

The director turned a blind eye to this and did not care at all.

As long as the insults between these people are not too harsh and the live broadcast room is not banned, they can curse each other as much as they want.

This is all wasted enthusiasm, he is not stupid, he would not want it for no reason!

……

Perhaps because he had a good feeling at the beginning, Wang Shan started talking more.

In addition, Chen Huan's original personality was extroverted, so the two of them chatted enthusiastically.

"So what are you teaching in college now?"

When Wang Shan heard that Chen Huan was a university teacher, he wanted to take a closer look with Chen Huan, and he was very ambitious. He thought that if he could be a teacher in a university, after they got married, the time he spent teaching Yaya would be greatly reduced.

If he has someone to help share this pressure, he will have more possibilities in his future work.

"I didn't teach any classes. I just stayed on campus to work as a college counselor."

Chen Huan didn't care and told him everything.

These days, if you want to teach at a university, you have to be at least at a graduate level.

As an undergraduate, the most she could do was be a counselor and take charge of students' logistics.

If we let her teach and something goes wrong, wouldn't she be misleading the students?
Hearing this, Wang Shan felt a little weak and then changed the subject.

"Although the current era is more friendly to women, I still hope that after getting married."

"My partner can spend more time with the family and take care of the kids."

In Wang Shan's education, his thoughts are relatively traditional.

It seems like it's in his genes for a girl to take care of her husband and children.

No matter which marriage relationship it is, he attaches great importance to this.

"It is the husband and wife's job to educate a child. It is impossible for a child to grow up with only a mother and no father."

Chen Huan understood the meaning of Wang Shan's words, but still pretended not to understand.

Don’t even think about asking her to quit her job and stay at home.

She worked so hard to get into university and even secured a spot to work on campus.

It’s not about finding a man to marry and then stay at home to give birth and raise children.

"Many families now adopt a widow-like education model."

"Most children who grow up under such circumstances have personality disorders."

"And if the mother takes the role of a bigger educator in a family, the child will be more likely to rebel."

Chen Huan expressed his views in an orderly manner.

Young netizens nodded their heads as they listened, but middle-aged audiences felt it was too one-sided.

——【Didn’t we all go through this back then? After many people got married and had children, the men would go out to work, and didn’t the women stay at home to take care of the children and the family? Didn’t many successful people today also grow up this way?】

——【At that time, most people were uneducated, and it was difficult for girls to be self-reliant in society, so they had to rely on men to survive. But in today's society, everyone works with their brains, and there is no such thing as one relying on another.】

——【Nowadays, women also have to earn money to support the family. Why do people come back exhausted from working outside, while I have to take care of your family? Since the economic pressure has to be shared, the housework should also be shared! 】

——【From what Wang Shan said, he doesn’t want the woman to quit her job completely after marriage and educate the children at home. If this goes on for a long time, the woman will have no social life and friends of her own.】

——[What Chen Huan said does make sense. A child's education cannot be separated from his father. If only the mother is educating the child, it will not have a deterrent effect, and the child will easily ignore the mother when he grows up.]

……

Because they grew up in different environments, young and middle-aged audiences have different ideas.

Deep down, most middle-aged audiences still believe that their husbands are their God.

This is caused by the environment in which they grew up, and they have been living this way over the years.

Young netizens feel helpless about this.

After all, the two people's thoughts are not at the same level.

Even if you talk your mouth off, it won't help.

(End of this chapter)