Chapter 75 After the relatives left, Lin Yuan began to count Weiwei’s New Year’s money!
"What do you three teachers think about Lin Yuan letting Weiwei take care of the red envelope herself?"

Xiao Bing asked in the studio.

Because Professor Li did not give his opinion in the last round of speeches, we will start with him this time.

Unlike Cheng Bo's helplessness or Liu Liping's nervousness, Professor Li calmly gave a fair evaluation.

"I personally think that every family's education method is different, there is nothing to say about this."

"If I have to say, it's okay to do anything about this matter."

"There is just one thing. If parents say they are keeping the money for their children, then it must be kept for safekeeping only and not used privately."

"Because when parents ask them to keep the money, the children will think that they will get the money when they grow up."

"As a result, when the child asks when he can give him the New Year's money, the parents play the emotional card and say that the money has already been spent."

"It is very bad to do this. It will make parents lose their prestige in front of their children and thus destroy the parent-child relationship!"

——【Professor Li is worthy of being Professor Li. His comments are all meaningful and there is not a single word of nonsense.】

——[It would be nice if my parents were also in the live studio. Every year during the Chinese New Year, they would take away my red envelopes, saying that they were keeping them and have not given them to me yet.]

——【I no longer believe in my parents’ promises. They can’t do what they say. They just want to achieve their own goals and make me happy.】

——【There are very few parents in this world who are like Lin Yuan, who stick to their word with their children. Most of them just say one thing and do another.】

——【When the older generation of parents encounter problems, they never look for the reasons in themselves, but only solve them violently! 】

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Most of the comments in the comment section are from young viewers.

They never thought that there really are parents in this world who give their children New Year’s money.

What Lin Yuan did today was completely beyond their understanding, and it brought tears to their eyes.

For a moment, I didn’t know whether I was envious of Weiwei or feeling sorry for my childhood self.

Professor Li’s remarks are particularly pertinent. It is not difficult to see that he did give his opinions based on this issue.

As a sociology tutor for many years, he actually knows a lot about parent-child issues.

Just like the red envelope issue, the most fundamental reason is that parents give their children expectations, but in the end they themselves cannot do it.

That is why many children are dissatisfied, but because the other party is their parents, the ideas passed down in their bones prevent them from doing anything to their parents.

This is why many young people today develop the mentality of just giving up when encountering problems.

Because this is a lesson their parents taught them, telling them firsthand: Some things are useless no matter how hard you try!
"What Professor Li said is very right. I think so too, whether from the perspective of the child or the parent."

“After parents promise their children something, it is better for them to do it instead of going back on their word.”

"If this happens too many times, the child will lose trust in the parents, which will affect the child's enthusiasm."

Cheng Bo immediately continued Professor Li's words.

It wasn't because of any other considerations, but because he really believed that Professor Li was right.

Although he didn't like Lin Yuan's approach, from a fundamental perspective, there was no problem with it.

"In fact, there is nothing wrong with parents helping their children manage their New Year's money. The main thing is whether the parents can do it. They are really just helping with management."

"As far as I know, most parents use this as an excuse to receive New Year's money from their children."

"When the children come to ask for money, they will talk about the money they spent on them over the years, making them feel guilty that they did something wrong."

"It's very bad to do this. Over time, it will make children develop a cowardly character, and they won't dare to take the initiative to fight for what they want."

It is rare that the three experts give such consistent opinions.

Both netizens and the director were a little shocked.

But this also shows that whether parents can do what they say to their children is a very important thing in the field of education.

——【All three experts have said this, can those stubborn uncles and aunts reflect on it? 】——【They all said that Lin Yuan’s education method is more suitable for today’s children, but you just don’t believe it. We have all been through this, how can we not know what children want? 】

——【Who hasn’t been a child before? Didn’t the experts say that there is nothing wrong with helping children keep their New Year’s money? Before, the children were still young and couldn’t manage their own money! 】

——【Thinking about what the experts said, I realized that I seemed to have done something wrong. Every time my child asked me for a red envelope, I was very angry because I felt that it was my own money.】

——[Me too, I get angry whenever my child says the red envelope is his, thinking that without the money I gave, there would be no money for him. Now that I think about it, I really did something wrong.]

……

The director looked at the comments that were all in the same direction and blinked in disbelief.

This is the first time such a thing has happened in the show that has been on the air for so many days.

There were even middle-aged viewers who openly felt that they had done something wrong!

He looked at Professor Li on the screen and nodded with great satisfaction.

The professors at Qinghua are extraordinary. After only a few days here, they have already reached a new topic.

If middle-aged audiences begin to reflect, does that mean...

Will traditional educational ideas be replaced by new era ideas sooner or later?

The director's eyes lit up, and he called the assistant next to him and asked him to post this as a discussion topic on the official Weibo.

As long as this topic becomes hot, even passers-by who have not watched the show will be interested in it!

At this moment, the camera switched to Lin Yuan again.

Seeing that Lin Yuan refused to listen, the relatives left in silence.

Only Lin's mother was still sitting on the sofa.

"You, you have been rebellious since you were young. I don't know who you inherited all those weird ideas from!"

As soon as the door was closed, Lin's mother couldn't help but talk about Lin Yuan.

Although I enjoyed watching the show just now, it was still a bit embarrassing afterwards.

Lin Yuan looked at Lin Ma helplessly, shrugged and opened Weiwei's door.

"Come out and talk to your grandma."

"Because she won't stop scolding me!"

Weiwei could hear everything that happened outside clearly in the room.

I know that my father is asking me to go out now because all the relatives have left.

Weiwei didn't continue hiding in the room. She turned off the tablet and walked out.

She climbed onto the sofa and nestled in Lin Ma’s arms, “Grandma!”

Looking at her lovely granddaughter, Mother Lin didn't have much anger in her heart to begin with, and now it has completely disappeared.

He pulled Weiwei aside and asked her a few questions, then let her go and went to prepare lunch.

She knew what kind of person her son was. If she asked Lin Yuan to cook, he would probably eat out again.

Seeing this, Lin Yuan did not stop them. He just sat on the sofa and started counting the red envelopes with Weiwei.

"Wow, these people are quite generous!"

Opening a red envelope, Lin Yuan took out ten red bills from it and nodded with satisfaction.

They pay a lot of tribute to relatives here, and it's normal to give one thousand yuan as New Year's money to direct relatives.

Of course, this is also related to family conditions. Anyway, it is a thoughtful gesture, and Lin Yuan has no opinion on it.

It’s just that if others give more, he will give more, and if they give less, he will give less, so as not to add burden to others!

(End of this chapter)