Chapter 71 You can’t control this situation! Dad is coming!
The aunts and uncles urged Lin Yuan to get married

"First of all, I respect everyone's way of education. Lin Yuan must have his own reasons for doing this."

"From Weiwei's perspective, she must not be very good at communicating with these relatives, or she is unwilling to stay with adults."

"There is a big blind spot in current education. Adults always think that everything they do is for the good of their children. So when something happens, they subconsciously make decisions for their children based on their own perceptions."

"Although it is undeniable that some parents understand their children better and make decisions that are indeed for the good of their children, like Lin Yuan, there are also many cases where parents unilaterally impose their wishes on their children."

"But from what happened just now, we can see that Weiwei particularly agrees with Lin Yuan's approach, which shows that Lin Yuan is the former and made the decision from the perspective of the child."

Professor Li spoke objectively and gave a very pertinent evaluation of Lin Yuan's behavior just now.

He couldn't control what others thought, but as far as this matter was concerned, he thought there was nothing wrong with Lin Yuan's approach.

He has always disapproved of the kind of parenting style that forces children to do things, which makes children feel depressed.

After hearing what Professor Li said, Cheng Bo and Liu Liping looked at each other in tacit understanding.

Fortunately, when they spoke just now, they didn't say things as extreme as before.

——【What can a child understand? If I think about everything from a child's perspective, how can I possibly think of all the things that I have to deal with every day?】

——【That is to say, children nowadays are very spoiled and know how to manipulate their parents. If something goes wrong, they will throw a tantrum. Even so, I still have to stand in the children's shoes and think about them. Wouldn't this family be turned upside down?】

——[Have you ever thought that Professor Li said this just to express that sometimes you should not force children to do things they don’t want to do. For those who are naughty and ignorant, it is natural that filial sons will be produced under the stick! ]

——【You don’t spank your child when you should, and you just keep spoiling him. Now you say that all children are precious. Don’t you think this is contradictory? If you can’t control your child, look for the reason in yourself! 】

——【No matter what, I still think that Lin Yuan was wrong in this matter. How can you really let a child do whatever he wants just because he doesn't want to communicate with his elders? He has no manners at all. He should change his ways.】

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After hearing what Professor Li said, netizens expressed their opinions
Middle-aged audiences still find it difficult to accept Lin Yuan’s approach.

I even feel that if parents only blindly obey their children, then the children will become lawless.

Young audiences snorted at this.

In their opinion, the reason why there are naughty children is because there are naughty parents.

These parents cannot control their children and even make excuses for themselves.

Similarly, Lin Yuan looked at his relatives sitting in a row on the sofa in his home.

He nibbled the steamed bun in his hand helplessly.

This time of year is when he gets the most headaches.

Since he was a child, he didn't like visiting relatives or dealing with them.

Unfortunately, he is the only college student in his family.

I don’t know what the mentality of these people is, but they follow his mother to his house every year.

They said they were wishing him a happy new year, but in reality they were just saying some nonsense.

Two years ago, he would talk to Weiwei endlessly!

"You said you are such a grown-up boy now, when are you going to find a partner?"

"Don't be too picky. It doesn't matter who you marry."

As soon as the aunt sat down, she looked around but couldn't find Weiwei. She saw Lin Yuan standing in front of her in a nonchalant manner.

I immediately became concerned about his major life events.

Lin Yuan sighed in his heart. He knew that these people said the same thing every year.

He broke off a piece of steamed bun and said, "Yes, don't live so long. You will die sooner or later."

"If you live too long, your children and grandchildren won't be able to enjoy the blessings, auntie, don't you think so?"

Seeing Lin Yuan being so rude, the aunt was so angry that she almost fumed.

Looking at Lin's mother sitting next to him, he opened his mouth, but didn't know what to say.

Seeing this, the third aunt on the other side immediately took over.

"Lin Yuan has been very promising since he was young, and now he lives in such a big house." "This house doesn't look cheap. How much do you earn a month? Is it enough to pay the mortgage?"

Lin Yuan didn't even raise his eyes.

"How much is your monthly pension? Is it enough for medicine?"

If a good person comes up and asks about employees’ salary, he must be sick!
The third aunt had a heart attack and shut her mouth in anger.

Lin Yuan’s hardcore response made netizens clap their thighs and laugh.

——【It’s so cool, so cool! If I had Lin Yuan’s mouth, I wouldn’t be so angry when facing those annoying relatives during the New Year! 】

——【Since I was a child, I have felt that relatives are the most annoying people in the world. They can’t stand you living better than them, or they will be sarcastic to you. If you live worse than them, they will verbally attack you.】

——【Lin Yuan is not a coward at all. His mother is sitting next to him, but he is so brave. If I had half of his courage, I would not just hide in my room during the New Year.】

——【This is so funny. No matter who you are, you can’t avoid two fatal problems when visiting relatives during the Chinese New Year. I learned this from Lin Yuan today. I will try it next time.】

——【Impolite, so rude. He is such an old man, but he doesn't even give his relatives face. These people are his elders after all. Have you ever thought about how his mother will be able to hold her head up in front of relatives in the future if he talks like this?】

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The louder the young netizens laughed, the harsher the curses from the middle-aged audiences.

If we say that Lin Yuan's behavior in the past few days made them feel like a child who has not grown up yet.

Then what Lin Yuan said just now was simply shocking!
After a while, the third aunt still didn't give up and came over again.

"Third aunt really cares about you. When are you going to find another one? Although your current job is unstable."

"But you are old now. If you don't find one sooner, you will have to wait until you are old to find one."

In their opinion, Lin Yuan is a piano teacher who only works a few days a week.

It's not a full-day job, so I guess the salary isn't that much.

Not to mention stability and decency.

Lin Yuan took the last bite of steamed bun and sighed.

"Third Aunt, I think you are standing on both sides of the Yellow River, you are really nosy."

"If a manure truck passes by on the road, would you still use a spoon to taste the saltiness?"

"Lin Yuan!"

Mother Lin was sitting aside watching the fun and saw that Lin Yuan was going too far.

This was just a symbolic roar, but in reality there was no anger at all.

She had already seen the faces of these relatives.

But these people are not at all content and always try to make trouble for themselves every year.

Naturally, she was happy to watch the fun.

The third aunt was a little embarrassed. She didn't expect Lin Yuan to be so disrespectful.

I cursed in my heart and laughed awkwardly.

I consoled myself by saying, "How do kids talk these days? It's really not decent at all."

"If it's a painting, I'll hang it on the wall."

"You said you're almost thirty, why don't you think about finding another one?"

The third aunt didn't give up at all and continued to ask while holding her breath.

"My cousin is already over 30, why doesn't she want a child?"

"There's no hurry for her to get well."

Hearing this answer, Lin Yuan suddenly understood.

"I see, it turns out that my cousin's husband is not good enough!"

(End of this chapter)