Chapter 5 Will children really be happy with this kind of education?
Seeing that the situation was one-sided, the director immediately accepted the next connection request.
The show will only have high ratings if both sides are evenly matched.
Xiaobing naturally took over the topic.
"Okay, let's listen to this netizen's different views on this matter."
The two experts breathed a sigh of relief.
The continuous questions asked by that old lady just now must have required the two of them to help analyze and answer them, which is more tiring than teaching college students.
As soon as the connection was connected, a rebellious male voice came from the other end.
"Hello, host sister, I am a college student."
"I think what the... auntie said just now is not right."
"Education based on self-satisfaction is problematic, and since it is problematic, we must correct it."
"So I am more optimistic about Mr. Lin's parenting style. I voted for Mr. Lin just now."
"Children are independent individuals, not carriers of their parents' thoughts. As a young person in the new era, I think parents' education should respect their children's ideas and let them do whatever they want."
As soon as these words came out, everyone present changed their expressions.
The two experts are relatively better, after all, they are taking classes at the university.
They have long been accustomed to some of the strange ideas in students' minds.
But the aunt who connected first was not able to handle it. She immediately started screaming when she heard the rebellious speech from the university student.
"Your logic is twisted. There are no parents who are not wrong. Which parent would not want the best for their children?"
"What we tell you is our life experience over the years."
"It's just that these children nowadays don't take their parents' words to heart at all, and they let their parents down!"
The two experts nodded frequently, thinking that what the old lady said made a lot of sense.
The college students sneered and were not at all tolerant.
"Today's parents like to demand that we live according to their ideas in the name of doing good for us."
"But they never asked us if this is what we wanted."
"Once we show the slightest resistance, you will get emotional and accuse us of wrongdoings, as if we can't have our own ideas."
"Looking at Yaya's life just now, do you think she is happy? From beginning to end, have you seen her smile?"
The aunt was not to be outdone.
"If a child has a happy childhood, she will regret it in the future. When she goes to college and her classmates all have special skills, she will feel inferior if she doesn't have any special skills to show off."
"At that time, our family conditions did not allow it. Now, every household pays attention to the education of their children. Parents are willing to spend money to send you to school. What else are you dissatisfied with?"
The college student continued to fight back.
"Why does a child feel inferior? It's because their thoughts are not paid attention to, and they feel that they are not important, which leads to inferiority complex."
"Not every child has talent. As they grow up, their talents will be discovered. There is no rush."
"So I think it's more important to pay attention to the child's physical and mental health and let her develop comprehensively, rather than putting my own pressure on her."
The college student spoke clearly and logically, and for a moment the aunt didn't know where to start.
He hesitated for a long time and couldn't explain the reason.
——[As expected of a college student, what he said was so sweet to the ears. When will parents listen to our voices? 】
——[It’s hard not to agree with my family members. They force me to do things I don’t want to do every day under the pretext of doing it for my own good. I’m going crazy! ]
——【What I’m saying is that sacrificial education is really unnecessary. Why is self-admiration still popular these days?】
——【I am very grateful for the love my parents have for me, but this love is sometimes too heavy and weighs on me. 】——【Confucius said that we should teach students in accordance with their aptitude. How can a stereotyped education method achieve the desired results? 】
The college student's words immediately resonated with many netizens.
They all expressed in the live broadcast room the grievances and dissatisfaction that they had been holding in their hearts for so many years.
……
The expert saw this and asked calmly.
"What you just said makes sense, but does caring for the physical and mental health of children mean sleeping in and not preparing a good breakfast for them?"
The college student sneered. He knew the expert would ask this question.
"Weiwei really didn't have a good breakfast? In my opinion, that bowl of egg noodles is not inferior to Wang's father's soy milk and fried dough sticks. On the contrary, it is healthier than fried dough sticks."
"Also, Weiwei is younger than Yaya, but she can prepare a meal by herself. What I see is Weiwei's hands-on ability and independence, which is rare."
"We always encounter this kind of situation in our lives. When there is something delicious at home, our parents always say, 'I don't want to eat it, you can eat it yourself.' Do you think this is love? This is a shackle!"
"Saying that mom likes to eat fish heads, dad doesn't like to eat shrimp, and seafood is too expensive so they only buy a little for you to supplement your nutrition, your self-righteous feelings are nothing but adding psychological burden to your children."
"When children's minds are not fully developed, they are forced to have an extra sense of responsibility. I would like to ask the two experts, do you think this is a good thing?"
The college student's continuous barrage left the two experts speechless.
Ever since more and more people born in the 90s posted videos of them raising their children on the Internet, the collision of thoughts among people of different generations has given rise to many sensitive topics.
But it is undeniable that the topic of whether sacrificial education is good or bad for children's growth is the most complex educational issue in contemporary times.
Everyone has their own different opinions, and this topic has always been controversial, with no correct answer.
……
The camera cuts back to Wang Shan again.
He has already brought Yaya to the piano room where the class is taking place.
In order to give his daughter the best education, he chose a course that was not only one-on-one, but also had a separate practice room.
Just after sending Yaya to the classroom, Wang Shan received a call from the company.
He urgently needed to go to the company to take care of some things. He looked at the time and there were still five minutes before class, but Teacher Lin had not arrived yet.
Just then the receptionist of the agency came over.
"Hello, why hasn't Teacher Lin, who teaches my daughter, come yet?"
"It's like this. Teacher Lin is one of the best piano teachers in the city. He was hired with a high salary, but he had a requirement that he must take winter and summer vacations."
"We have tried to communicate with him, but even if we offered him three times the price, Mr. Lin was unwilling to teach. Don't worry, we have arranged another teacher to teach Yaya."
"His level is on par with Teacher Lin, and he will definitely not let Yaya fall behind in her studies."
Wang Shan urgently needed to go to the company, so he could only nod and agree after hearing what the front desk said.
He didn't ask too many questions, just gave Yaya a few simple instructions and left.
The barrage became active again.
——【Teacher Lin? It can’t be the teacher Lin I was thinking of.】
——【Don't bother, I thought I was the only one who thought this way, this is too much of a coincidence! 】
——【It’s so funny, there is such a talent, could it be Lin Yuan? 】
——[If this is really the case, I can only say that the program team knows how to stir up trouble. 】
(End of this chapter)