Chapter 37: Children’s inferiority complex has nothing to do with their parents?

The education of the older generation will only raise children with low self-esteem!

The director didn't expect that someone would actually send gifts, and they were rockets.

He was immediately overjoyed and called his assistant.

"Quick, arrange for him to connect!"

This is the God of Wealth who came from heaven, and he not only gives gifts.

Judging from the situation, he is going to argue with the experts. This is really hot!

The assistant was not vague and immediately agreed to the connection.

"You two old bastards, you don't take today's young people seriously at all!"

As soon as the connection was made, the young audience started cursing out loud.

Cheng Bo and Liu Liping looked at each other in confusion. The program crew didn't say that there would be a live link session today?

The most important thing is that you have to pay extra if you get scolded!

"You said that children who grew up with Wang Shan's education basically have both a house and a car. So I want to ask, nowadays, as long as they have some ability, if not both, aren't there many people who choose one of the two?"

"And how can you be sure that these people didn't buy houses and cars with money given by their families? Children who grew up under the education ideas of the older generation are reluctant to spend money."

"When they make money, they will give it to their families unconditionally. They will take into account the difficulties faced by everyone else, but forget that they have also suffered. Even when these children grow up, they will develop a people-pleasing personality."

"Damn it, when it comes to you two, you only see the advantages and not the disadvantages. Yaya has such a big character problem, and you two are blind to not say a word!"

Being scolded for no reason, Cheng Bo and Liu Liping both looked unhappy.

Especially Cheng Bo, he just started from the data and did not express his own opinions, but even so, he was still found to be attacked.

Young people nowadays are really too impatient!

Considering that they were recording a program, the two of them forced smiles on their faces even though they were unhappy in their hearts.

"What I meant just now is that the data we collected shows that children who grow up under Wang Shan's educational philosophy are more likely to succeed than those who are raised in a free-range environment."

"Because they know what they want from a young age, they will regulate their behavior and take on a certain amount of pressure, and when they grow up, they will turn pressure into motivation."

"Fuck you, you turned pressure into motivation. If a child is under unnecessary pressure at an age when he shouldn't be under pressure, it will only distort his psychology. You are an expert, but you don't even know this!"

The young man didn't listen to Cheng Bo's explanation at all. He also grew up under the educational ideas of the older generation. No one understood better than him what a terrible childhood that was.

——[Are children’s emotions unimportant in the eyes of these so-called experts? Aren’t they invited by the program team? Why don’t they dare to speak out about the shortcomings of Wang Shan’s education? ]

——【My memories from childhood are all negative. My parents only cared about my grades. If I got 99 out of 100 on a test paper, they would not praise me for being good, but would only ask me how I lost that one point.】

——【Even though I’m old, my dad still calls me a failure. I couldn’t stand it at first and did have the idea of ​​proving myself. But then I realized that no matter what I did, I couldn’t prove myself, so I just gave up.】

——【Understanding the pressure of education will only make children become particularly sensitive and suspicious. When encountering something, they will subconsciously look at their parents' expressions. Most of these children will have no opinions of their own when they grow up.】

——[Oh, actually my parents’ family of origin was also a mess. Every time I told my mom something unhappy, she would give me an example of something even more unhappy that happened when she was a child.]

……

Young viewers have commented that it is hard for them not to support someone who has come forward.

Besides, what the person on the microphone said was what they wanted to say.

Cheng Bo's face turned a little serious. Although he was an expert in sociology, he was not a professional educator.
But he still knew some relevant knowledge, but he didn't say it to others' faces for various reasons.

Cheng Bo almost couldn't hold back from swearing when netizens pointed out his problem so bluntly and even questioned his professionalism.

Liu Liping couldn't just sit there and watch, so she sorted out her thoughts and said.

"What Mr. Cheng said just now is just a conclusion based on the data. Maybe the people around you are not like this, or you don't pay too much attention to it and just vent your dissatisfaction."

"Perhaps the environment you grew up in as a child made you feel that your parents put pressure on you that shouldn't have been given to you, causing you to have negative thoughts about life, but how many of your generation were raised in a free-range environment?"

"Children's education requires a very strict environment. If parents are too relaxed, their children will develop lazy habits. How many truly self-conscious children are there in this world?"

Hearing this, Cheng Bo's expression relaxed and he nodded.

In fact, most people nowadays don’t understand why they can be polite outside.

Once you return to your original family, you will become very angry.

I have no patience to listen to what my parents say, and even when communicating with them, I am filled with annoyance.

When they were researching this type of topic, they also speculated that it was the environment of the original family that caused the children's long-term rebellious psychology.

Because my thoughts clash with those of my parents, I will subconsciously refute what my parents say and feel that my parents' thoughts are out of date.

After a long time, they will develop annoyance and be unwilling to communicate with their parents anymore.

However, these are just their speculations and have not been further confirmed, so it is not easy to bring them up on the show.

Faced with Liu Liping's conciliatory policy, the young man didn't take it seriously at all and sneered.

"Okay, let's look at this issue from the perspective of a parent."

"Most parents say they want their children to be happy. If that's the case, then isn't the first thing they should do to understand their children?"

"If you don't understand your own children, how can you give them the right advice? Are you going to just do what you want? Why do you want your life to be overly restricted?"

"Secondly, parents only play a role of restraint and education, rather than artificially interfering in the growth of their children, forcing them to live the life they imagine according to their ideas!"

The more the young man spoke, the more excited he became. At this moment, he seemed to see himself again, having to compromise at home.

The fear that dominated his heart drove him to seek justice for his past self.

"When a child grows up, whether he lives a good life or not is his business and his freedom. Parents can at most give some advice, but whether he accepts it or not is also his business."

"Parents should cultivate their children's ability to think and live independently from an early age, rather than blindly controlling their children's lives. It's enough for children to know some ethics and morals, and there is no need to ask too much."

"As parents, shouldn't we develop our children's interests and hobbies, so as to discover their talents and cultivate them, rather than severely spanking them?"

"Instilling in children the idea that their family is poor and that everything their parents do is for their own good, aren't these ideas meant to pua the children and thus achieve the goal of controlling their lives?"

……

The young man's words greatly increased the popularity of the program.

Even the topics on major social platforms have attracted a lot of people to watch.

(End of this chapter)