Chapter 33 People will be trapped in their lives by things that they could not get when they were young

In Lin Yuan's opinion, what Wang Shan said was fallacy.

He thought about it and said with a frown.

"I saw a quote online a while ago, which said, 'People will be trapped in their lifetime by things they couldn't get when they were young.'"

"Actually, think about it, when we were young, we couldn't buy many things we wanted because of poor conditions."

“When we grow up, we still miss the toys we wanted when we were little.”

As he said this, he looked at Weiwei who was sitting obediently beside him drinking a drink.

"At Weiwei's age, she is curious about the world."

"She would be delighted by flowers, birds, fish and insects, and be shocked by the sun, moon and stars. These are all part of satisfying her thirst for knowledge."

"So I think that, under the premise of reasonable requirements, we should allow children to have some pocket money so that they can buy things they like."

"It's not something too much. After all, we also want our children to have a happy childhood."

It was the first time that Wang Shan heard such remarks. He looked at Weiwei and then at Lin Yuan.

I was suddenly speechless.

——【Brother Lin is worthy of being my Brother Lin. His educational philosophy is really suitable for today's children. I have to give him a thumbs up! 】

——【Wow, what you said is so true. When I was a kid, I liked dolls, but my parents never bought them for me. So now when I go to the supermarket, I still want them, even though I’m already in my twenties.】

——【In fact, when people become rich, they first satisfy themselves, and the things they want most when they grow up are often the things they could never get when they were young.】

——[This is simply a fallacy. Children are so young, how can they know what they really want? If adults don’t keep a close eye on them, it will only help them develop bad habits! ]

——【The child's eating, drinking, defecating and urinating are all done at home. If he still needs pocket money, how can he live? Lin Yuan's theory is only suitable for children from wealthy families! 】

……

After resting for a while, both families planned to take their children to play some more activities.

Wang Shan took Yaya to ride the Ferris wheel that they had planned to ride from the beginning.

It was not until he sat on the Ferris wheel that Wang Shan's mood calmed down.

If it wasn't for maintaining his image in front of the camera, he would have argued with Lin Yuan a long time ago.

How can you teach your children like that? You will only lead them astray!
"Look, Dad! This playground is so big!"

Yaya stood in front of the transparent door, her eyes wide open, watching the scenery getting smaller and smaller with joy on her face.

In fact, she and her father had been to this amusement park a few years ago.

It’s just that the amusement park wasn’t that big at that time.

Wang Shan did not spoil the fun and watched it with Yaya.

Because the Chinese New Year is coming soon, some people have already started decorating the amusement park.

Small lanterns and colorful lights were hung on the small trees.

The dolls handing out flyers also changed into festive clothes.

……

Wang Shan took a look and felt a little sad.

It's the end of the year again.

"What do you want to play later?" he asked gently.

Yaya thought about it and her attention was attracted by the large pendulum in the distance.

"I still want to play that!"

"Dad, let's go play that later!"

Wang Shan looked and found it was a pendulum, and his face suddenly looked a little ugly.

But he did not deny it directly, but spoke patiently.

"Yaya, that project is very dangerous, only boys will play it."

"We are girls. We can't do anything particularly risky. We must put our own safety first!"

A hint of disappointment flashed across Yaya's eyes, and she pointed at another one.

"Then let's go play that, there are so many people at dad's place!"

"Look at those kids running around. It would be terrible if they bumped into someone."

"And you have to jump down and climb up. You are wearing a skirt today. It's not elegant."

Wang Shan took one look at the naughty castle and refused without a second thought.

Later, Yaya pointed out a few more that she wanted to play, but they were all rejected one by one.

The expectation in her eyes gradually disappeared. When the Ferris wheel returned to the ground, Yaya sighed and said.

"Dad, what do you say we are going to do now?"

As if he had finally waited for these words, Wang Shan spoke immediately.

"Don't you like handicrafts? I remember there is a handicraft workshop in this amusement park."

"Shall we go there and take a look together?"

He saw it when the Ferris wheel reached its apex just now.

I thought about the feasibility in my mind.

There is not much time left until evening.

Taking Yaya to make a little handicraft, time passed quickly.

"Okay, Dad. I'll do as you say."

The expectation in Yaya's eyes was shattered in an instant.

In fact, she really doesn't like doing handicrafts.

When I was in kindergarten, I was required to complete my handicraft homework with my parents.

But my father was very busy at that time, going out early and coming back late every day.

There were several times when she had to complete her handicraft homework with the help of her teacher.

No other child in the class is like this, only she is.

Gradually, she got tired of doing handicrafts.

But Dad obviously didn't know.

But it doesn’t matter, as long as dad is willing to spend time with her, that’s enough.

——[Didn’t you say you were going to the amusement park with your child? If that was the case, why did you finally follow Wang Shan’s idea? He didn’t care at all when Yaya wanted to play! ]

——[I think some of this is really nonsensical. What do you mean you can’t go to play just because you’re a girl? Since when did coming to an amusement park have gender restrictions?]

——[Wang Shan, can you take Yaya’s needs seriously? Yaya said so many things she wanted to play, but he rejected them all. I really feel sorry for Yaya! ]

——【Girls should be quiet and gentle, they are not like boys, Wang Shan’s education is correct! 】

——[Will he be like Lin Yuan, who plays with his daughter before his child does? Wang Shan has his own considerations. All his ideas are based on his daughter. He is really a good father! ]

……

In the perception of netizens born in the 80s.

Girls should be quiet and gentle. If they are too lively, they will be annoying.

They especially like to define girls.

And Wang Shan's approach obviously coincides with their ideas.

Yaya forced a smile and followed Wang Shan, walking through most of the amusement park.

Then we arrived at a not-so-big handicraft workshop.

Accompanied by Wang Shan, he picked up an item and sat obediently at the table.

Lin Yuan ran towards the shooting game nearby.

Weiwei was not to be outdone. Although she was small, she was having a lot of fun standing on the stool given by the stall owner.

Every time she wanted Lin Yuan to play with her first, Lin Yuan always had something to say.

"I'm an adult, and adults should play first!"

In this regard, Weiwei could only follow helplessly, shouting.

"Then let's go to the amusement park when you're older. I'll be an adult by then, and I want to play first!"

"Then wait until you grow up!"

No matter what Weiwei said, Lin Yuan always gave a timely response.

"Hurry and see if there's a doll you like. Daddy'll get it for you!"

Lin Yuan put the toy gun on his shoulder and threw a coquettish glance at Weiwei.

He simply hadn't shot for a long time and his hands were itching to do it.

"That, I want that!"

Weiwei pointed at a doll that was half a person's height.

Lin Yuan raised his eyebrows, "Okay! It's time to show you my true strength!"

(End of this chapter)