Chapter 202 Live Broadcast Interrupted
After Kadi and the others left, Lin Yuan and Weiwei returned to their daily lives.
But Weiwei does not often appear in the live broadcast room, but Lin Yuan occasionally exchanges experiences with netizens.
The last mock exam for primary school to junior high school is coming soon.
Weiwei studied harder.
The occasional relaxing time is playing the piano with my dad, watching documentaries, and occasionally playing building block games.
The state is very relaxed, but the learning process is very hard-working.
Lin Yuan would also bring Weiwei a few cups of hot milk from time to time.
It won’t disturb Weiwei at other times, nor will it disrupt her study plans.
At this moment, Lin Yuan was broadcasting live in his room.
The middle-aged netizen was anxious.
——【The last mock exam is about to start, go and look after Weiwei.】
——【Yes, the child can’t find you when he encounters a problem he doesn’t know how to solve.】
——【Whatever is missing will be delivered in time. Why is this parent so unhurried?】
——【At this critical moment for children, parents must stay by their side.】
——【When my son was in primary school, I stayed with him all night and helped him solve any problems he had.】
——【Now the most important thing for children is to learn other things, and parents must help them do it. 】
——【We, as older parents, understand best what our children need now. 】
——【At this time, the child will be very active and may not study anymore.】
Middle-aged netizens believe that children have no self-control and that this must be changed by their parents.
Too many people hold this view.
Children will definitely not like to study or do homework without their parents watching over them, which will waste their time.
Lin Yuan disagreed with their point of view.
Some children lose their self-control due to excessive attention from their parents.
It’s not that every child lacks the ability to distinguish and control themselves, but that they have been controlled by their parents from the very beginning, so they think that they must be controlled by their parents.
"I don't know if some parents have noticed that some children really like to play hide-and-seek with you. They like to be caught by you, and they also like to hide and do things you don't let them do!"
Of course, middle-aged netizens have such resonance, but they don’t want to say it out loud. Instead, young netizens talk about their childhood experiences.
After hearing what Lin Yuan said, they seemed to understand.
——【So this is why I hid from eating snacks when I was a kid.】
——[My dad never lets me watch TV, so I often watch TV secretly and fall behind in my studies.]
——[Is this also the reason why you are not allowed to eat snacks during class? 】
——【You are absolutely right. We shouldn’t restrict children too much.】
——【Let your child do whatever he wants to do, and don’t be too suspicious. 】
——[Some parents just don't believe in their children. It would be great if they were like Lin Yuan.]
——【If you establish such motivation and self-control from a young age, you will not go astray when you grow up.】
——【It’s really interesting, those middle-aged people are still cursing, it really hits your point.】
Some people do not want to admit their failure in education, nor do they want to admit that they have raised their children to have their current character.
They just want to put all the blame on their children, saying that it is because of their own lack of self-control and lack of concentration that they did not do well in the exam.
But exams are only a part of life, not the whole of life.
It is obviously wrong for parents to over-exaggerate one aspect of their child and regard it as a direction for his future.
"Every parent has his or her own educational method, but a child is an independent individual. He or she will become what you teach him or her from childhood." "If everyone does not believe in the child and thinks that he or she can only succeed under your education and can only learn under your control, then the child will lose his or her initiative."
I wonder if this has caused some people to fall into deep thought.
At least young netizens agree with this very much.
They share the same educational philosophy as Lin Yuan and believe that this educational philosophy is in line with contemporary trends.
And the previous bad habits must be abandoned.
Some parents should apologize to their children.
Even though the mistakes made over the past 20 years cannot be made up for, this apology is still worth it.
Lin Yuan saw this request.
He stood on his own position and also spoke to the fans in front of the screen.
"Every family has its own situation. If you think that what your parents did back then has caused you great harm, and you urgently need an apology to fill the psychological pain you've been suffering for so many years, I suggest you speak to your parents openly!"
"You are different now than you were when you were little. You have your own opinions and your own life. You can find opportunities to make up for your childhood."
As expected, middle-aged netizens are about to stand up again.
They did not agree with Lin Yuan's idea and even wanted to criticize Lin Yuan.
——【How can he say that? Parents are doing it for the good of their children and will definitely not harm their children.】
——[He even encouraged netizens to apologize to his parents.]
——【Finally it overturned. I said his education was not good enough. Let’s withdraw quickly.】
——[Does arguing with your parents make you a good kid? You can’t talk back to your parents. 】
——【Old people have their own experience, and children do not have their own ability to distinguish, so of course they have to be supervised.】
——【This parent is too young and doesn’t understand at all, yet you guys still listen to him. 】
——【You have hurt your parents so much, and you still want them to apologize. It is not easy enough for them to raise you.】
How many people use this statement to educate their children.
Lin Yuan smiled helplessly, but the online debate had become extremely heated.
Lin Yuan’s figure also appeared on the hot search.
Many people commented below, and the popularity was indeed divided into two directions.
In this direction, young netizens are very supportive of Lin Yuan’s educational views, and believe that this is a statement on behalf of their childhood.
But middle-aged netizens on the other hand believe that Lin Yuan is the one who hurts all the parents' hearts.
They believe that no matter what parents do, they will not harm their children. Even if they do something wrong, it is just because they did not understand it at the time. After all, everyone is a parent for the first time.
Lin Yuan couldn't understand this kind of empathy. After all, no parent could understand their child.
Even in such a heated situation, he still chose to publish his position and opinions.
On your own social media account.
"Being a parent for the first time, having a child for the first time, these are our labels."
"But this doesn't just give excuses to parents and not to children."
“When children do something wrong, they are beaten, scolded, and taught a lesson, but they are also children for the first time.”
Lin Yuan's words touched many people.
Some middle-aged netizens began to reflect on themselves.
Even though some people have deep-rooted ideas, they do not agree with Lin Yuan's opinion and believe that adults should use their own experience to discipline children.
(End of this chapter)