Chapter 198: Get Out, Little Blackie
It was originally just an explanation, but Lin Yuan didn't expect that it would cause so many people to speak.
After all, some people have been watching the live broadcast since morning, and they know what happened.
Xingxing was originally discussing math problems with Weiwei, but unexpectedly, all of Xingxing's math problems were solved by Weiwei.
But a second-grade junior high school student couldn't solve Weiwei's math problem.
So they thought that Xingxing was not studying seriously.
This is a common contrast among middle-aged parents.
Always thinking that other people’s children are better, always thinking that if others can do it, your own children can do it as well. Lin Yuan believes this is a big misunderstanding in education.
This is indeed what middle-aged netizens say.
——【All children are the same, some of them just like to play. If Xingxing had also learned all the knowledge in high school, she would not be unable to learn it now.】
——[I think so too. In our era, everyone studied very hard, and there were still many good students.]
——[They just think that life is too good now, so they don’t even prepare for class.]
——【Weiwei is much better than Xingxing. We should learn from Weiwei.】
——【I just showed it to my son to see how other people’s children study, but he can’t even reach the passing line.】
——【My son won third place in the country last time. I think he is just like a star.】
——[Actually, there is something wrong. Such a good family, why don’t they give them excellent resources and let them enroll in some cram schools? 】
Kaidi couldn't help but speak. He originally thought that he shouldn't speak when Lin Yuan expressed his educational opinions, but now it was all about the stars.
"I think it's important for children to have their own interests and hobbies. My son doesn't like playing the piano, so I can give him other hobbies. I learned all these from Lin Yuan. Otherwise, I would definitely force my son to practice the piano every day!"
Kaidi is also very grateful to his senior.
Giving him a chance to reflect on himself has prevented the distance between him and Xingxing from being too far away. Now there is still a chance to make up for it, but he did not expect that so many people on the Internet have misunderstandings about them.
"You don't have to enroll your child in cram schools just because you have money. This is not a measure of your love for your child. Your love for your child can be expressed in many ways!"
Young netizens strongly support their approach.
——【Cram schools are really scary. They completely ruin your childhood. Parents must not do this.】
——【Why do you always like to compare your children with other children? This really makes you feel superior. 】
——[They just want to find an excuse for themselves. It’s not that their children are not smart, but that they can’t do it.]
——【When you see other children, you should reflect on yourself and ask yourself what their parents’ IQs are and what schools they graduated from.】
——【This is so funny. How come there are parents like this again? I hate middle-aged people like this the most.】
——【Don’t say this in front of your children, they will definitely remember it.】
——【Whether a person is good or bad at studying cannot be used to judge a person. Don’t compare two children too much. I have seen many typical cases before.】
——【My dad used to treat me like this, so I’m done with him now.】
——【Well done, just do what you have to do.】
Lin Yuan was very happy that many young netizens were willing to come forward and share their past experiences.
I also hope that some children will not always be compared with others, thereby belittling their own value.
"Many parents often say, look at other people's children!"
There are many people on the screen who can relate to this.
"But are their children really better than your own flesh and blood? If you think so, have you forgotten how much expectation and love you had for your children before they were born?"
"Did you have to tell him at that time that after he was born, he must be admitted to the top university, or win an international award from you!" Now, not only the people in front of the screen began to reflect on themselves, but even Katie began to reflect on herself.
They used to have very high expectations for Xingxing, believing that he would definitely be able to follow his path as a musician.
But later he found out that Xingxing had no interest in music at all and he also had his own field.
If he hadn't learned the lessons from his senior, he would have become a bad father.
But more middle-aged netizens are unwilling to admit their failure.
They believe that their own experience is the most accurate, and that if their children can learn good things from other children, they will definitely be able to improve themselves.
Especially through comparison, so that they will have a sense of competition.
This kind of concept that is ingrained in our bones is difficult to change.
I have no idea how to make them realize their problems.
All we can say is that some children will still be subject to such pressure and grow up in such an environment.
The middle-aged netizens couldn't sit still again.
Lin Yuan is likely to mislead young people by doing this.
——【Children need to be compared. They will never know their own problems. We cannot give them all encouragement.】
——【What do you know? Kids in this era are too hypocritical. Let them know how good others are.】
——[I think these two fathers are not competent either, and their children may not perform well in school.]
——【If you don’t put some pressure on him, he will never have motivation. You have to make the cram school run at a high intensity.】
——【No matter what, a child’s academic performance is the most important when they are young. If their academic performance is not good, they will be easily discriminated against.】
——【Other people’s children are of course good, but your own children are not treasures no matter how you look at them.】
——【I didn’t think about having another child when I gave birth to him. This isn’t an accident.】
——【Other children are attending cram schools, how can we not attend cram schools?】
——【Since his family is so poor, we will try our best to provide him with learning resources. You rich people should stop teaching others blindly.】
Lin Yuan sighed softly.
As expected, there are still some people who cannot change their minds, so he doesn't want to say more.
But now more people are paying attention to Weiwei's grades.
"Don't wait tonight. The results won't come out overnight. The earliest will be tomorrow!"
As expected, a large number of people were disappointed.
But more intermediary netizens think that the results must not be very good and are unwilling to let them know. There are many schools that can know the results on the same evening, and only such schools can reassure parents.
The sooner the results come out, the better. Let the children know what the final results will be after the exam and adjust themselves as soon as possible, instead of giving them a day to rest.
"A child's grades are not the most important thing. I don't really want the uncles, aunts, brothers and sisters in the live broadcast room who like Weiwei to care so much about his grades, more than he cares about him as a person!"
"I know my child best. He has many other shining points. This is just one of them."
(End of this chapter)