Chapter 193 I Respect Weiwei's Decision
——【You packed up all these clothes without even asking your daughter? My daughter will definitely jump with me when she sees this.】
——[These are all bought by parents, why can't they make their own decisions? 】
——【Whoever spends the money makes the decision. If my daughter jumps up like this, I will slap her.】
——[My child has always had the best since he was young. If he wears clothes that have been worn by others, I will definitely feel uncomfortable.]
——【Return the used clothes to others. Anyway, I won’t let my son wear other people’s clothes.】
At this moment, the sound of the password door outside was heard.
Lin Yuan looked over with a smile on his face, and sure enough, it was Weiwei who came back.
Remembering the soup he had cooked in the kitchen before packing his clothes, Lin Yuan quickly walked over and turned it off.
Seeing Weiwei put away her schoolbag, I asked her to wash her hands first.
"Dad, we're going to have a mock exam in two days."
Lin Yuan and Weiwei chatted briefly and did not focus all their attention on the mock exam.
But Weiwei also noticed the clothes in the locker room.
——【It’s bad, it’s bad. The kids will definitely be angry.】
——【Lin Yuan said that there were some of Weiwei’s favorite clothes in it. If he found out and gave them to other children, they would definitely be unhappy.】
——【Weiwei is not an ordinary person, please don’t misunderstand me.】
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——【You guys just pamper the kid too much, you should hit him a few more times.】
——【Why do you keep talking about fighting? The guy above must be a middle-aged man.】
——【I think he is just like my dad. We are no longer from the same generation.】
Lin Yuan sighed lightly, and then let Weiwei see the clothes.
But Weiwei did not show any surprise, instead she was very happy.
“Dad, are we finally going to donate these clothes to the children in the mountains?”
Lin Yuan nodded slightly and looked at the screen with Weiwei.
"It was Weiwei who proposed the idea of donating clothes. I respect her choice. Some children in mountainous areas wear worn-out clothes. Weiwei really wants to help them."
Weiwei nodded quickly and said to the uncles and aunts in the live broadcast room, "When I was watching a documentary with my father before, I saw some children in the mountainous areas who still don't have any warm clothes. The weather is going to get cold soon. I am willing to donate the clothes at home to them. I hope they don't mind."
Lin Yuan gently touched Weiwei's head.
This conversation completely slapped the faces of those who were just watching the fun.
Especially some middle-aged parents are so impatient that they will not listen to anyone's explanation, including their own children.
It seems that only in this way can they gain the upper hand.
Lin Yuan rarely wants to argue with them in the live broadcast room, but sometimes they say things that are too extreme.
——【Where are those people who came out just now? Hurry up and say a few more words.】
——【Don’t have too many misunderstandings about us middle-aged parents. We are also learning how young people educate their children now.】
——【My friend above is right. I am also learning from Lin Yuan. My son is about the same age as Weiwei, but I am older than Lin Yuan.】
——【What's wrong with being quick-tempered? He's my son and he has to bear it.】
——【It's so sad to have a father like you.】
——【Lin Yuan’s emotions are very stable. He gives the child enough respect and allows the child to remain calm when encountering problems.】
——【You guys are just treating the children as your friends. There is such a big age gap between us and the children, how can we be friends?】
Lin Yuan disagreed with what they said. The age gap between parents and their children is indeed too big. Some parents who have entered middle age find it difficult to communicate closely with their children.
But respect is something that every age group should have.
"I believe that children are not your property after they are born. They also have their own ideas, which we should respect and understand."
"The child wants to donate the clothes he has worn, which is originally a kind act, not something you use to educate your children or show your family's superiority."
Lin Yuan didn't want them to show in the live broadcast room how dirty and even despicable this action was.
This will not only affect children of this age group, but also other young parents.
Middle-aged parents always think that they have too much experience and can educate others, but some of their experiences in raising children may not be correct.
Lin Yuan's words immediately won the applause of many people.
Especially in the live broadcast room, the young parents who had just been educated were now all standing on Lin Yuan's side.
——【That’s very well said. Lin Yuan is our role model.】
——【You older parents, don’t think you can educate anyone just because you have experience.】
——[Is your child attending Qinghua? Lin Yuan is a professor at Qinghua.]
——【They haven't done anything yet, and they're just talking nonsense here.】
——【You are so old now, you should think about retirement and save some money for yourself, otherwise your children may not be close to you in the future. 】
——【I learned a lot from Lin Yuan and became friends with the children.】
——【You parents are just too young. We have come a long way, so could what we taught you be wrong?】
——【They become friends with children in this way, and in the end they don’t even consider you as their parents. 】
Looking at the conversation above, Lin Yuan chose to close the live broadcast room.
Their conversations can seriously affect the judgment of other young parents.
Becoming friends with children is a new type of educational method used by today's parents, and it will not affect the children's respect for themselves.
They will find that their parents are getting closer to them, and being friends will help them to speak their true feelings to each other, as well as some hidden secrets.
Of course, it is not just to get the big secret in their hearts, but to hope that they will not have wild thoughts at an inexperienced age.
Sometimes communicating with parents can quickly solve the problems they are currently facing.
Seeing the room full of clothes, Weiwei was still very happy.
"Dad, when are we going to donate the clothes? I can't wait to see them happy."
"We'll go when you're on vacation. It's not a good idea to ask for leave now."
Lin Yuan lowered his head and asked.
"Yes, Dad. The mock exam for junior high school is coming up soon. We will have a short vacation after the exam."
As night fell, the father and daughter finished their meal and returned to their rooms.
When he came out to use the bathroom, he saw that the light was still on in his daughter's room. Lin Yuan ignored it and did not put any pressure on her.
I'm afraid she is still solving the questions at night. This is what Weiwei wants to do consciously. No one forces her. She is just immersed in the sea of questions.
After coming out of the bathroom, I saw that the lights were turned off.
Lin Yuan smiled with relief.
Weiwei herself can already measure the time and effort she puts in.
Too much control may not be useful. Lin Yuan likes the way they get along now.
(End of this chapter)