Chapter 191 Are key junior high schools really important?
Which junior high school should I go to?
Lin Yuan had never thought about this issue before.

The whole society is now in a state of internal competition, and the competitive pressure is very high for both adults and children.

Many parents adhere to the concept of starting from an early age and enroll their children in various interest classes when they are young.

Not to mention after going to school. In addition to attending classes at school every day, children also have to go to tutoring classes after school.

I can't even get a good rest on weekends, as I am forced by my parents to learn other things.

Whenever Lin Yuan thought about this, he felt a headache.

Not to mention the kids who are going through it.

"Gold will shine wherever it goes. It's just a matter of time. There's no need to worry too much."

"In fact, the current education level in the country is quite high, and there is not much difference between key junior high schools and non-key junior high schools."

"Although the learning environment will have a certain impact on children's learning, the more important factor is the children themselves."

Lin Yuan patiently expressed his thoughts.

After so many years, Lin Yuan has lost his former casualness and become more calm.

As a parent himself, he can especially understand the feelings of these middle-aged netizens.

But he understands better the harm that oppressive education will cause to children's growth.

Besides, Weiwei's grades are good enough to get her into a key junior high school.

Even if the schools are divided according to the place of residence, there will be no problem with Weiwei's household registration.

So he was not worried that Weiwei would not be able to get into a good junior high school.

But speaking so frankly to netizens may seem like I'm standing out from the matter.

Although every parent is most concerned about their children's learning problems, some things cannot be solved by one's own.

Instead of doing this, it is better to relax and give your children more trust rather than suppress them.

——[It’s easy for the anchor to talk while standing. If Weiwei doesn’t study well, you will definitely be more worried than us! ]

——[My child has been rebellious since he was young. No matter what I say, it’s useless. With his current grades, he may not even be able to get into high school.]

——[Being a parent is so tiring. If you tell your child, he will be upset. But if you don’t tell your child, you are afraid that he will think you don’t care about him when he grows up! 】

——[Sometimes I wonder if there is something wrong with my parenting style. No matter what, my child just wants to go against me.]

——【In fact, only when children become parents, they will understand how difficult it is for parents! 】

……

The middle-aged audience sighed and groaned, which gave Lin Yuan a headache.

It is said that every family has its own problems, and when it comes to education, it varies from person to person.

Different children have different personalities, and they cannot be educated according to the same template.

But the parents’ starting point was all for the good of their children, and for a moment Lin Yuan didn’t know what to say.

However, many young netizens expressed their opinions after watching it.

——【This society is no longer the 1970s or 1980s. It seems that if you don’t study, you will starve to death.】

——【If your child really can’t read, just let them go. It’s really painful to force them to do something all the time.】

——[Although it is said that being well educated will make it easier to find a good job in the future, isn’t the character of the child more important? ]

——[The reason why society is so inward-looking is because there are so many worried people! 】

——[Oh, the competition in society is too fierce nowadays. It is better to let children enjoy life while they are still young.]——[There are college students everywhere nowadays. Studying is no longer the only way out.]

……

Young netizens expressed their opinions one after another.

Some netizens even said that they have been studying hard every day since elementary school.

After I entered a key junior high school, my family enrolled me in cram schools like crazy because they were afraid that I would not be able to keep up with other students.

Later, I finally got into a key high school, and I studied day and night every day.

During that time, I felt like I was just sleeping and studying every day, without any thoughts.

I can just lie to my family and think studying is not tiring at all.

He even told him every day how much money his family had spent to support his studies.

So after entering college, he used his spare time to do part-time work.

Although he was self-sufficient through his own efforts throughout college, he always envied other students.

I envy them for being able to live a carefree life and experience the world at the best years of their lives.

I envy them even more because they don’t have to bear the pressure from their families too early and can go on a trip whenever they want.

Many young netizens were deeply touched by what this netizen said.

——[I was like this when I was in college. I was very careful with my spending every day and didn’t dare to spend a penny more because I was afraid to ask my family for money.]

——[It is natural to ask parents for living expenses at this age, but my parents’ attitude always makes me feel like I am begging.]

——【In fact, everyone’s life trajectory is similar. It is not necessarily that you will have a good future if you attend a key junior high school.】

——【Compared to studying, I think it is more important to cultivate children's moral character, because now everyone has a degree, and the boss pays more attention to the character of the child. 】

——【To put it bluntly, I think this is actually a kind of self-touching education, which is for the purpose of better controlling children in the future.】

——[I also think that this is the only way to arouse the child's guilt, and guilt can make a person give more unconditionally.]

……

Young netizens pointed out the thoughts of middle-aged audiences in a very insightful way.

Lin Yuan looked at the comments that were about to start a quarrel and sighed deeply.

The reason why he didn't say it explicitly just now was because he guessed that such a situation would occur.

A person's deeply rooted thoughts are difficult to change, especially in the area of ​​education.

Now that the Internet is well developed, many children are exposed to the other side of the world too early, and they begin to think whether the way their parents treat them is correct.

If they cannot accept the way their parents educate them, they will resist fiercely.

This is actually a collision of ideas between two generations. It is a process that must be experienced for the progress of the times. It cannot be said who is right or wrong.

"The initiative of learning still lies with the children. As parents, we should relax appropriately."

"Especially at each critical stage of a child's life, we must not let excessive pressure on ourselves affect the child."

"We should try to trust children, maybe there will be unexpected gains."

Lin Yuan tried to persuade him a few more times, then turned off the live broadcast when he saw that the time was almost up, and then collapsed on the sofa.

After a long while, he got up, tiptoed to Weiwei's room, took a look, saw that she was already asleep, closed the door and left.

(End of this chapter)