Chapter 128 Lin Yuan: Don’t disturb her, let Qiqi cry enough!
"This game is actually very simple. It's just a father and son working together."

"The child picks up the peanuts and puts them into his father's mouth. The timer is set for one minute to see who picks up the most peanuts."

Huang Bin proudly stated the rules of the game.

Although this game seems simple, it actually tests children's mental and practical abilities.

"This is too easy, isn't it just a test of hand speed and coordination?"

Cheng Lei rolled up his sleeves proudly, looking eager to try.

The other fathers didn't take it seriously at all.

After all, the children are six or seven years old and can all use chopsticks.

Besides, it’s just a game. If you lose, you lose. The important thing is to participate!
"Then everyone come together and select the winning family based on the time it takes to complete the task."

After saying that, Huang Bin asked the children and their father to stand on both sides of the table.

With a shout of “start”!
The children all rushed to pick up the first peanut.

There were many people watching around, and Coco was a little nervous. Her hands shook and the peanuts fell on the table.

Zhang Siqi didn't expect that failure would come so suddenly.

"It's okay, Coco. Dad believes you can do it!"

After what happened last night, Zhang Siqi kept thinking about what Lin Yuan had said to him.

For a shy child like Coco, you must give him more praise.

When something happens, fathers should not lose their temper or appear too anxious.

This will only put more pressure on the child, so be patient!
——【After watching all day, Zhang Siqi has really become much gentler, especially when he is with Keke. He is not as fierce to the child as he was last night. It seems that he has remembered what Lin Yuan said.】

——[Our brother is a gentle person. He just criticized her because he loved her so much last night. You people shouldn’t take it too seriously. But she is my brother’s daughter. How can I not feel bad for her?]

——【Come on, a bad personality is a bad personality. As the ancients said: Admitting one's mistakes and being able to correct them is the greatest virtue! It's not a big deal, so why not admit it?】

——[Many parents nowadays, even if they realize their mistakes, will not take the initiative to apologize to their children, let alone change their educational methods. It is already very good that Zhang Siqi can take this step.]

——【In fact, people who have received education will not have much resistance to correcting their mistakes. Only those who have not received education have a strong desire to control because of their inferiority complex and fear that their children will look down on them! 】

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The young netizens were discussing this and at the end they all sighed deeply.

Many people feel that there is something wrong with parents’ educational methods, and the root cause is the desire for control.

Especially those who have not received cultural influence, once they become parents, they will be afraid that their children will be out of their control.

They are afraid that after their children learn knowledge, they will not be able to keep up with their children's thinking, so they will suppress their children's thinking.

Keep your child firmly under your control.

When children learn new ideas, they will clash with their parents' ideas.

This is the origin of the so-called "rebellious period"!

The game is in full swing.

Cheng Lei, who was originally eager to try, was the one with the slowest progress.

Cheng Chen sighed helplessly.

"Dad, could you please keep your mouth open and stop talking all the time?"

"Every time I finally get the peanuts to your lips, as soon as you talk, the peanuts fall out!"

During the competition, Cheng Lei kept looking at Weiwei beside him.

Weiwei and Lin Yuan have a very good understanding of each other, and Lin Yuan is particularly cooperative.

He was half leaning on the table, his head supported by his hands, his mouth open.

Just waiting for Weiwei to deliver the peanuts.

In a short while, he had more than a dozen peanuts in his mouth.

This game is about speed and the number of peanuts caught.

Huang Bin specially found a few local children, sat next to the fathers, and helped count.

The food in Weiwei's bowl was almost empty, but the other children were still making slow progress.

Qiqi stamped his feet anxiously. Seeing that he was about to lose his temper, Yuan Jie hurried to comfort him.

"It's okay, Qiqi, let's take our time, don't rush."

"But if you take your time, you lose!"

Qiqi, who was only thinking about winning or losing, didn't listen to Yuan Jie at all.

He even grabbed some peanuts with his hands and pushed them forward.

Yuan Jie grabbed Qiqi's hand and said seriously.

"Qiqi, the most important thing about the game is participation. You can't ignore the rules just to win."

"This is unfair to the other kids!"

——[Although Qiqi is still young and it is normal for her to pay more attention to winning or losing, what Yuan Jie said is also right. It can be seen that he is a very upright person and did not turn a blind eye to Qiqi's crying. ]

——【In fact, there are no major problems with the parenting methods of the fathers present. We should not be too strict with our children and should be tolerant.】

——[I think Qiqi is anxious because he has a strong sense of self-esteem and doesn't want to lose to other children. This is a good performance. It depends on how Yuan Jie guides his emotions.]

——【Don’t talk about Qiqi. I’m this old now. Sometimes when I complete a task with my friends, if they progress faster than me or do better than me, I will get anxious. This is normal, okay? It’s just that children don’t know how to relieve their emotions well! 】

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While netizens were discussing this matter heatedly, Weiwei had already completed the game first.

"They only dropped five peanuts."

The child sitting next to Lin Yuan said in a low voice.

Looking at the camera facing herself, she gave a shy smile.

After spending an afternoon together today, he particularly likes this uncle.

So I just took the initiative to sit here.

"Thank you for your hard work!"

Lin Yuan spat out the peanuts in his mouth and thanked the child gently.

Seeing that Weiwei had finished the game, Qiqi couldn't bear the temper any longer.

No matter how Yuan Jie comforted her, she just burst into tears.

Qiqi's crying attracted the other children to look over.

Everyone was confused and didn't know why he was crying out of the blue.

"Qiqi, don't cry!"

Yuan Jie gave the order with some headache.

You are obviously a boy, why do you like to cry so much?
"Crying won't solve any problems. If you want to win, pick up your chopsticks quickly."

“Although we cannot be number one, we will try not to be the last.”

Unfortunately, when Qiqi started crying, she couldn't hear any sound outside.

No matter what Yuan Jie said, he didn't stop crying.

Qiqi was still crying until the other three families finished the game.

At this moment Yuan Jie was already a little impatient.

Seeing this, Lin Yuan patted Yuan Jie on the shoulder and said, "Don't worry, it will be fine when Qiqi is tired of crying."

"If you try to comfort him now, he will only cry harder."

Yuan Jie had no better idea now, so he subconsciously listened to Lin Yuan.

However, the middle-aged audience in the live broadcast room disagreed.

——【I told you this young man is unreliable. How can you let a child cry like this? If he cries for too long, won’t his voice become hoarse?】

——【Oh no, young people still don’t know how to take care of children. Besides, Qiqi is so young, why should you be so strict with him? Rules are taught slowly in life. How can you make him fat in one go?】

——【That’s right, no one else saw it, so why didn’t Yuan Jie, as a father, just turn a blind eye? If there was anything, they could talk about it at home. He had to show off to the child outside, which was intentional to make the child unhappy.】

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(End of this chapter)