Chapter 120: For children’s growth, praise is more beneficial than scolding!

Lin Yuan stood beside Weiwei, holding a bamboo basket and a bucket in his hands, and listened quietly.

I didn't expect that Weiwei actually listened to and remembered what I just explained casually.

This was quite unexpected for him.

However, many young netizens were shocked when they heard these words.

——【Lin Yuan’s teaching method really surprises me every time. Weiwei’s words are so good. I also think that praise is sometimes more educational than condemnation! 】

——【I was scolded by my parents since I was little. No matter what I did, it was always bad in my parents’ eyes. Obviously, I did so much just to get a compliment and be recognized by my parents.】

——【Children who have lived under criticism since childhood will feel that they are not worthy of praise when they grow up and enter society. They think that people are just being polite and not really praising them. That’s how I am.】

——【Lin Yuan is really an excellent father. Every time I was scolded by my parents and did not get their approval, I would tell myself in my heart that when I have children in the future, I must not let my children have the same childhood as mine.】

——[I really envy those children whose parents always praise them. I feel that they are the ones who live in the love of their parents, while I am just a thief who peeks into other people’s happiness! ]

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In the live broadcast room, the young netizens became more and more excited as they spoke.

The constantly rolling barrage of comments resonated with more and more people.

If you think about it carefully, this generation seems to be the one with the most pressure.

It is the last train of the old era and a test product of the new era.

Having witnessed the beauty of the old streets and alleys, I am also impressed by the ever-changing prosperity.

Although they don't have to worry about food rations, their lives seem to be on fast forward.

In school, compare grades; in society, compare achievements.

Parents will never understand the pressure their children are under and instead blame them for not working as hard as other children.

Speaking of this, many young netizens almost broke down in tears.

The director looked at the emotional comments and sighed deeply.

Thinking that Lin Yuan had nothing to do now, he called the assistant behind him.

"Ask Lin Yuan's filming director to interview him right here."

The live broadcast had only been going on for less than a day, but the popularity Lin Yuan had brought was more than he had imagined.

The young assistant immediately picked up the walkie-talkie and passed the message to the director on the front line.

Lin Yuan was taken to the nearby ridge and interviewed alone.

When I heard the director asking whether I was worried that the children would develop a spoiled personality if I kept praising them.

He fell into a brief silence, thought for a moment and then spoke.

“No matter what kind of education method you use, as long as you grasp the right degree, it is easy to achieve the results you want.”

"For example, Weiwei completes her assigned tasks every day, and I will give her rewards. I will also often praise her in life."

"As parents, don't be stingy with your praise, because children need a sense of security."

“Only when children feel loved through their parents’ praise will they become confident and dare to do what they want.”

Speaking of this, Lin Yuan couldn't help but think of his childhood.

His parents are also relatively strict traditional parents, but he is luckier than others because he does what he says.

Whenever he promised his parents to complete a task and get a reward.

His parents always support what he does and fulfill their promises after he completes it.

"Many parents think that their children are so young and don't know anything. It's cheaper to fool them than to spend money." "So after their children have completed their goals, they will find fault with them and criticize them."

"Some even resort to moral blackmail to make children feel guilty and think their demands are unreasonable."

Speaking of this, Lin Yuan sighed deeply.

He discovered this problem when he was doing experiments in school.

It is worth mentioning that this idea of ​​many parents is the most fatal in education.

——【Yes, yes, that's right, my parents are like that, I'm really fed up with their attitude, every time I make a request, they change their mind after I do it, after a while I'm too lazy to pay attention to them.】

——【My parents are the same. Every time I tell them that I have completed the conditions, I am happy and think I can get a reward. But my parents always go back on their word!】

——【The four words "moral kidnapping" are absolutely amazing. This is what I can't stand the most. No matter what time, as long as I say what I want to buy, my parents will say that it's not easy at home and ask me to be considerate of them. I want to know, is it not possible for me to spend my own money and buy what I want?】

——【In the eyes of some parents, their children’s things are theirs. They are reluctant to give but want their children to return the favor. They always say, “It’s not easy for me to raise you, why don’t you know how to be grateful?” I am so tired of hearing this! 】

——[I really feel that this kind of family environment is very depressing. My parents don’t think they are wrong. They think I am an ungrateful person who doesn’t know how to be grateful. They just want me to give them this and that. I am so annoyed! ]

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Young netizens complained about their parents.

Although some people use sharp words, it is not difficult to see that they have great resentment towards their original families.

In their opinion, Lin Yuan spoke out what was in their hearts.

After all, I have been under the pressure of my parents for so many years.

This group of young netizens have long been accustomed to keeping many things in their hearts and dare not show their emotions.

After a long time of not being able to get what they have always wanted, they no longer expect to get it from their parents.

The director sighed again.

Why didn’t he realize before that there was such a big difference in the educational philosophies of the two generations!
The middle-aged audience immediately became unhappy after hearing what Lin Yuan said.

Especially when he saw the comments from young netizens, he became even more furious.

——【It’s easy to talk without any pain! Children’s psychology is not fully developed. If you praise them blindly, what’s the difference between that and flattery? It’s because they are your own children that you have requirements. Otherwise, you are just being idle! 】

——[It sounds better than singing. If parents have to satisfy their children no matter what they ask for, then life will be unbearable! ]

——【Children should not be spoiled too much. Young people nowadays are spoiled too much. They are more pretentious than each other. They get angry with their parents over the smallest things. Or maybe they were not beaten enough when they were young!】

——【As parents, we all want the best for our children, but sometimes we just don’t have the means. We all have to make a living. We can’t just tighten our belts and not eat or drink for the sake of our children, right?】

——【Young people nowadays are selfish, they only think about themselves, how can they understand the difficulties of their parents? If your parents ask you for this and that, it must be because you are better off!】

——[If you can make a living, isn't it your responsibility to help out a little at home? Young people have plenty of abilities, so if they can do more, the pressure on parents will be less! ]

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The middle-aged netizen expressed his views aggressively.

They have never been able to understand why young people have such great resentment.

As parents, they did not let their children lack food or clothing.

Give your children the life that matches your ability.

It’s just that sometimes we are negligent, isn’t that inevitable?

Is it necessary to make these people take it too seriously?

He is even condemning his parents online!

After so many years of being together and pampered with all the good food and drink, have you turned into an ungrateful person?
(End of this chapter)